I'm a Gemini who has been involved with a Gemini guy for over four months now. I actualy understand him pretty well because alot of his bad traits are mine too but sometimes his cold, reserved, unemotional lack of communication or effort to spend as much time with me as we sometimes have, does get to me. I sometimes think I should contribute it to a major personality flaw in him, like a hole in his soul or something, but the thing is Gemini guys will give the cold shoulder, stay distant, AND THEN get sociable again, and how they were when you first started to like them. They just go in cycles and you have to just be the friend in alot of ways alot of the time. If you do during those times he will probably come around again. They have alot of internal battles of will going on all the time and too much closeness smothers their sense of autonomy which, even if they're in a commited relationship, they still need to feel like they still have that sometimes. Doesn't mean they'll be unfaithful, they just need to be quiet and doing their own stuff for a little while to return as the cool, smart, magnetic, clever guys that they are. If they're not talking as much as usual that's all it is and it's not worth raking them over the emotional coals over it. They probably don't realize they're offending you or hurting you because that's not what they mean to do at all. There's just times when they don't see the importance of talking quite as much as they sometimes do or getting together on that level all the time. Confronting them usualy just confuses them and makes them run in the other direction because they usualy don't like deep heavy conversations at all. That's what I've learned form my fellow Gemini guy. It can be really confusing sometimes though, I know. I just stay chill about everything and he always comes around again, alot faster than if I confront him and try to talk to him about it, and about how it makes me feel.
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