Hi Paulaj - My confusing and irritating Cancerian IS named Patrick, he's in the Army, currently deployed to Bondsteel and is due home in Nov. My experience with my Patrick is proud of the fact that he always has what he calls an "ace in the hole, just in case"! In my experience with my Patrick, he's been known to stray, both online (joining dating sites etc) as well as offline.
I sure HOPE we aren't sharing the same Patrick! If we are, we need to talk, I'm done with my Cancer named Patrick, he's pushed this Leo too far so I'm moving on, but I can give you some important warnings and advice, should he turn out to be the same guy