With so many Scorpios in your emotional surroundings,maybe you've just been given a karma-lesson!
Like : one should never ever try to discipline a Scorpio!!!! It simply doesn't work...one has to outsmart them or end up being a "general",deprived (almost all of the time) of relaxed state of being...:))) Is it worthed?
What if you let go of control for a while?What would happen to you?
I,myself have a similar situation but with - Virgos!!
My father was a Virgo(ouch...) my older daughter,too...and my younger daughter and son are -Virgo rising!!!So,I asked myself - what is my karmic Virgo-lesson?!? It seems to me,with all those experiences,that it's - Egoless state!:)))...still trying...;)))