Posts made by itsjustme2

Luazinha, please don't take it personally. I, like you, am also dying inside. I haven't heard from my Cancer guy since Halloween night. He sent me 2 doz roses on Tuesday for our 6 month anniversary (dating), but he hasn't answered my calls/texts or emails. I know he's busy starting his new job in a new city, but this is ridiculous. I wouldn't think of not contacting him! Seems like all the Cancer guys I read about in this forum are all alike. Either we women just keep hanging on their string, or we continue with our lives and if another guy happens to enter the picture...oh well...looks like our Cancer guys will miss out! Stay strong and don't block your blessings.

Saranee, I can relate to everything you've said about your Cancer guy. Let me tell you my story. I'm an Aries who met a Cancer guy online. We've been dating exclusively for 6 months. He started talking about having an LTR (long term relationship) within the first week we met. He had sent beautiful roses to my job 4 out of the 6 months, given me jewelry, computers, furniture, money, etc. Even wanted to take me to Mexico this weekend to celebrate our 6 mnth anniversary. But after talking on the phone, texting and emailing several times a day for the first 5 months, he started disappearing on me. He came to my house last Friday, left Saturday morning to go back home. But said he'd return Sat (Halloween night). Then he texts me that something came up. When I called him to find out what happened, he said he had to help his Aunt move her stuff because she'd gotten kicked out of her house. That was the last I heard of him. Then, on Tuesday, I get 2 dozen roses sent to my job with a card saying he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. My problem is, why hasn't he called, emailed or texted me. It's going on 5 days. From everything that I've read on these forums, it sounds like Cancer men are the most confusing sign of them all. Why can't he be straight with me. Either you want to communicate or not? Either you want me or you don't. I'm not contacting him until he contacts me. Sorry, I wasn't much help to you, I just felt the need to vent and to let you know that you're not alone. Your guy probably likes you, but his Cancer-ness is taking control. LOL. Good luck!