I am a scorpio woman happily married to a virgo male. Recently we have completed 3 years of our marriage and believe me I could not be more easy and happy with anybody else than a caring Virgo. ya!! you are right that if the arguments happen then it go on and on ...it is the favourite pastime of a scorpio and a virgo also....Scorpio tends to argue with his intuition and experiences and virgo talks logic and technical side of the matter....Sometimes i become so furious(must have heard about the scorpio rage) even i don't understand.why?..but it is my perseverance that has made me calmer now...and things solve easily...remember when a virgo is giving his views do not disturb him...hear him carefully (sometimes u can pretend also.. ha.. ha!) If you interrupt him, all his systematic speech will be disturbed and he will be either angry or nervous. Give him a lot of space to move, talk, feel, think, understand and then he will be at ease with you...do not challenge each other...that can bring jealousy...rather help each other.
scorpio is demanding but virgo is contended. Of course this arises some vacuum in relationship. If you are scorpio u will always find yourself passionate about every matter and will be bit surprised with the cool and practical approach of virgo ...it is not that he is not interested in matters but it is just that he need time to analyze and then take action....in that case you should motivate him because scorpions are stronger concerning the feelings. He will care for your dreams, pains, sacrifices and will spend time to make you happy . He will live for you because he understands the devotion and loyalty of a deep scorpio woman. what else can be more beautiful and colourful for a relation? Love and get lost!!! take care god bless you both!!!