hey!!

I am a scorpio woman happily married to a virgo male. Recently we have completed 3 years of our marriage and believe me I could not be more easy and happy with anybody else than a caring Virgo. ya!! you are right that if the arguments happen then it go on and on ...it is the favourite pastime of a scorpio and a virgo also....Scorpio tends to argue with his intuition and experiences and virgo talks logic and technical side of the matter....Sometimes i become so furious(must have heard about the scorpio rage) even i don't understand.why?..but it is my perseverance that has made me calmer now...and things solve easily...remember when a virgo is giving his views do not disturb him...hear him carefully (sometimes u can pretend also.. ha.. ha!) If you interrupt him, all his systematic speech will be disturbed and he will be either angry or nervous. Give him a lot of space to move, talk, feel, think, understand and then he will be at ease with you...do not challenge each other...that can bring jealousy...rather help each other.

scorpio is demanding but virgo is contended. Of course this arises some vacuum in relationship. If you are scorpio u will always find yourself passionate about every matter and will be bit surprised with the cool and practical approach of virgo ...it is not that he is not interested in matters but it is just that he need time to analyze and then take action....in that case you should motivate him because scorpions are stronger concerning the feelings. He will care for your dreams, pains, sacrifices and will spend time to make you happy . He will live for you because he understands the devotion and loyalty of a deep scorpio woman. what else can be more beautiful and colourful for a relation? Love and get lost!!! take care god bless you both!!!

I agree with Capcake that you will have to make him understand the consequence but even after that you should be alert.

hello xtine21

Again a girl confused, lost and seeking the final decision in the love of said to be confused but actually determined scorpio male...I am a scorpio girl....so atleast i know scorpios but scorpio males are more acute with their traits...I have observed it...One of my friend has the same situation with a scorpio male. This guy (you talking about) cannot be predicted ...at one hand he will love you like anything and soon he will be cold and demanding for space because suddenly he realised that there are many other things in his life to attend. He is busy with some other matters which have occupied his mind intensely and he wants to check how free he is with those matters and simultaneously he will try to please you. If you want to keep going like that then sympathy!!! because you will have to hurt yourself many times...AND IF YOU HAVE GOOD CONTROL ON YOURSELF do not reply him everytime... just be normal...after all you want to know what does he want ..... so let him show you ...don't ever and ever be desperate for him....he will take advantage of it by giving no importance to you.....maintain your grace and keep yourself busy with work and other things!! take care!! God bless you!!

hey dear!!! I feel bad about that !! Good is that you have realized your mistakes and asked for forgiveness. you are right ...you should not loose yourself but be strong. If he is not thinking about you ...atleast you should start thinking about you and your child. Collect your strength and be happy because you confessed... rest ...god will take care!! If he is yours he will come and if does not come he was not yours....buck up and don't cry ...Do you earn? if not go and do it...just stand and face....i am sure you will....common stand up ...God bless you!!!!

Hello arienprincess!!

Cancerians are very emotional and moody!! Water sign!! this guy is very much affected and effected by the last relation...I think he was deeply involved and that is why he is surprised that why things didn't work....as you said he talks about the ex with you also...may be is honest but here he is confused. His confusion is your problem. He sees you as emotional support for him and is sometimes swayed with emotions and you feel it is love(even he must have felt so)...but soon he wakes up and become friendly, not in love. I think you should not be hasty for this relation because if you force him or ask him whether he loves or you will leave him ...he can behave haughtily. If you really want to solve just be friendly and try to control your emotions so that he gets time to understand his emotions and decide . Whatever be the decision you should not loose yourself....Life is beautiful...Take care...god bless you!!!

Hello and thank you for your warm welcome. My sun sign is Scorpio...in chart -moon in Virgo with rising Sagittarius. I don't know why but i love to observe and understand people. This is why Astrology interests me. I think it is a science of vibrations and their interpretation. Love to get lost in it and find in it!!

hello

I am a scorpio but even i feel the loneliness and its truth. You must have heard scorpions are misconstrued many times.... this and their depth leave them with nothing but loneliness.

Mostly i like to enjoy the bliss of loneliness but there are times i hate it because then i am in need to be understood as I am. cause of loneliness decides the experience with loneliness. Bliss or Hatred!! So it is a common concept.....and yes you are also a water sign so may be common this way!!

My answer is for contessaluna!!

hello

I read you ...I just thought to write you because my husband is also a virgo...so i thought may be i can say something...Look...whenever we have fight on any issue....i have realized that if i give him time to realize his mistake(if it is)...or to understand the situation...it has better results than feeling like lost and confused...Virgos take their time to analyze things, applying their logic and then taking a decision...if they are disturbed in between their respective system is also disturbed...I think you should give him time to understand your feelings... meanwhile, you should not forget to show your concern that you care about the relationship but that must be smooth not attached deliberately. ....and yes avoid violent arguments( if happens)take care ...god bless you !!!

Be careful !! do not involve yourself physically...who knows...you may get hurt later!!!! It is not your duty (everytime) to make him realize that he is handsome....If he is a true scorpio he knows what he is...he is just eager to hear you saying so ...and confirming whether he interests you!!! I don't say that he is all wrong but then you are not all certain. A love affair with a scorpio man is either passionate and true( which can be seen and felt) or a flirty kind of(including lots of romantic compliments and emotional fears) Once he wins you, his task is done and after that..... as you said ...you chase him.... and he will respond only when he likes to. Suddenly ...you will realize that you are the one who is managing and organizing all the affair...and you cannot blame him...because he is poor fellow surrounded with many fears.....Wait and observe ...all you need is patience....or if it is really frustrating...leave it...but then be determined...till last. take care!!