To Danr, re your comment on page 52

I thought I would update you on my friend... yes still many issues. I have stood back and kept my hand of friendship open - slowly bit by bit he is coming back - finding his way.

What split us apart should not have happend apart from a real big lesson in finding true love - I have it to give, he has yet to realise what it really is.

What you wrote in reply was very true and reminded me to have faith... waned several times, but I know the bond will never break now, even if we cant be together.... but who knows.... theres always hope (even in the enternal realm

He is finding his way slowly - I am here for him - he now knows this, so I wait with love in my heart - like the poem I wrote - I give with my heart..

Hope you are well, its nice to meet all of you on the forum - Carole xxx

Hi Twinsoul (what a lovely name

I have made friends with a man in USA, I am not thinking "love of my life stuff". Although my feelings for him are stronger than I tell him as he has commitments and I would rather keep friendship than do any damage.

We have been writing to each other for a year now at least once a week. There seems to be a spiritual link between us - we have both grown spiritually in leaps and bounds since meeting (online) - some of it psychically down right awsome and totally astounding !!

So what exactly do we have between us - Love Carole xxx

Strange is good !!! I am always being told I am strange - in the nicest possible way !!!!!

I know what you mean about not being rude and walking away - I missed many a bus with my children as toddlers - when old lady just had to stop me to say hello - what lovely family they'd say !!!!! (now whos strange me or her !!!)

Love, Carole

You are definate Indigo... you got the look around the eyes and the same sort of smile !!!!

Do you find both draw others to you ??? (do you get comments on eyes and smile??)

Hi Captain - interesting... some I hadnt quite got to grips with some made perfect sense.

Hubby - very jealous, angry, envy - wont help around the home - wont support me, and definatly wont give me any space - hence being suffocated. Cant send email nor have phone conversation without him prying and critising. I dont even do any hobbies any more as he resents me speding any time or thought on another.

Man friend - yes very open - yes, does tend to withdraw (is say my energy is rather powerful), but he is also very emotional, on the whole we have quite a good relationship which we both appreciate - I certainly dont take anything/one for granted. (that was lesson ingrained in me as child). Yes, we have supported and both accept if we can keep our emotions level, we have heaps to learn and support each other. We both want that (at the moment anyway).

What I would really like to know if this man would commit to a proper relationship with me later. I have never felt so comfortable with any one more in my life - he says the same. (I am in UK, hes in LA)

Best wishes, Carole

Hi Velveteen Rabbit - no I dont do readings for many others, like the others here sometimes we need another person to step in to help clarify our thoughts - "bring us back to centre". My response to "heyyou" touched my heart as I know where she is comming from - "empathy"... (another thread!!). My skills are in reading peoples energy and connections - but I usually do that face to face, although I can pick up a lot from an email - the way others write gives me heaps of info on their emotions.

Like UH does with the Tarot - its about vibrations (energy) what we feel, what we see... thats why we need to send love to every one (even if we dont think they deserve it - it will help move the negative energy out and bring the positve energy in).

Love to all, Carole xxx

Hello from the UK !!!

Hi, just picked up on this thread... if you are still reading can I put forward my dates.

Me - 13 Aug 1956 (lost and confused in my own world)

Man friend - 30 Aug 59 (who I really like but is having issues with other women)

Husband - 4 Sept 52 (being right ratbag to me - financially and emotionally)

I have started to pick up my studies in astrolgy again - so still very new/beginner in this field and welcome the chance to follow anothers opinion.

Love to all, Carole

Hi. Heyyouwassup, you are dong all the right things as UH suggested – so well done !!!

You now need to take a few more steps forward, not great big leaps or you will miss a bit of the healing process (leave open wounds to fester – which we all have to go back to heal eventually)

Firstly, by putting your own energy around you as protection – yes you have shifted the energy about your xbf…. That was the first stage to give you some “rest bite”. The dreams are your unconsciousness coming through as you know you have more work to do to find your inner peace/space.

You comment on “reason and let my mind lead the way” – you now need to take the next step and clear you mind. In clearing the mind, you are not subjectively controlling the thought (you have now got past that bit with this) – empty your mind this will let your psychic insight, logic, practicalities ??? come through (depending on what works best for you). You xbf may also be thinking about you and you are picking up his energy – he will have unresolved issues as well on why he walked away from, Its easy to shift blame to others when we don’t want to own up to our own mistakes – that is very weak thing to do – but a human thing to do …...

Its not easy to control a dream, some can do it, many cant – but to send healing (energy thoughts) before you go to sleep, to yourself firstly, then your situation, then add in the xbf and dream – you should start to distil the negative part of the energy that still vibrating around. The dreams wont just stop – they will change – as you change. You need to change the energy on how you see/feel him.

Not easy when we hold pain inside ourselves. Its not about forgiveness – that will come later when you are ready, so don’t go thinking we need to love and forgive everyone that does us harm…. We can’t do that straight away… we have to work through the issues first… that’s what the lesson/learning is all about. We can forgive someone that hurts us, but we must also remember, that does not give them the right to keep on hurting us – they have to take back their responsibility of the actions as well.

As they say … one step at a time….

Hi soapmaker and Laithno - I saw your post. Just wanted to express the term out a bit more for others to understand.

Empathy which literally translates as 'in feeling', is the capability to share another persons emotions and feelings.

Experiencing emotions that match another person’s emotions, knowing what the other person is thinking or feeling – The feelings cross over and blur the line between yourself and other person. This is because you have been there yourself already with a similar experience and can share the pain/feeling.

Empath – in the intuitive form adds dimension to the feelings – as in psychically reaching out to feel another. Which is what Indigos do – our senses are so fine tuned – you sense more (beyond) what others see and feel.

Where as Sympathy – is feel sad/sorry/giving support to another, but not having the full emotional experience to share the deeper side of another person issue (like death of a relative, pain and hurt – you cannot not relate so much emotionally, but do have compassion to give sympathy)

Hope that was not too complicated - but quite a few ask me the difference.

Love to all