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Help with an Aquarius Woman
Ive been talking and seeing this woman for the past two and a half months now. Things were going fine and it seemed like our relationship was moving forward. then all of a sudden she started ignoring me. so my first instinct was to run. however, i care alot for this person so i decided to communicate with her on how I was viewing things. she communicated back and it seemed like things were going to get better. In fact they just got worse. There is alot going on in her life and she doesnt see herself as someone that is good for me. she claims that she will just bring me down and is burden to have in their lives. I on the other hand think otherwise. I want to keep her in my life but i dont know how.
Every attempt I make to make things better seems like it just makes things worse. Im an aries btw. Now i think my new course of action is to completely just ignore her and see what she does, just give her space. I dont want to lose her but it feels like the more i push the more losing her becomes reality.
Anyone out there have an experience with an Aquarius female that can shed some light or some advice on my situation. Or any Aquarius females that can help out on how to approach on what I think it a true Aquarius female attitude. Any help will be greatly appreciated. I really care for her and I want her to be in my life.
Thank you in advance.
RE: Help with a Cancer Woman
Ok so i called her that day i dropped her off after our date She was very stand offish in her responses. So i figured ok whatever, Im gonna go out and just not pay attention. I sent a last text and never got a response so I was fed up with it, especially after I just took her out on this nice night in the city.
I told myself not to text or talk to her the next day. So my day was going fine and she ended up text me. So i responded whatever but her response again was still short. My friend told me to just keep it simple and not really act like you to into her and she will come around. ok so the next day i decided to do that. I didnt text her again. and she ended up texting me. which was bs because the night before she never responded to my last text again.
so my response to her yesterday were also just one word. she was initiating, convo but my response were short. the other reason to was that it was because I was at work. However, after I got of work, I realized how childish this was and just told her the reason i couldnt really text was because I was busy, which was actually true. she responded with a short message as soon as i started to initiate conversation.
I texted her today cuz she didnt again respond to my last text. so instead of waiting for her to text me today, i decided i would do it. I have got nothing, no response nothing. Im so confused at this pointed that my head is spinning haha. Is this typcial behavior for a cancer? she is really interested or just stringing me along. I figure that if she wasnt interested at all she wouldnt even have gone on that date let along text me or answer any of my texts messages.
Why all theses games though? I was also going to send her flowers tomorrow, i was planning on doing it because my plan was not to communicate with her for awhile and then surprise her with flowers, but then she texted me anyway. are the flowers a good idea? its nothing to be just a small vace getting delivered to her apartment. and there is a note attached saying "just because.......hope you have a good week, and maybe I will see you soon."
Im really confused with this person, I really am interested with her and I honestly do not want to play games, im told for that. what should be my next move? thank you in advance for any advice you can give.
Help with a Cancer Woman
I have been talking to this beautiful woman right now for the past two weeks. We have been out on two dates and things are looking good. She keeps dropping small hints of her attraction to me, but then pulls back. I took her out today to play and she enjoyed it. She was greatful and was talkative after the show. We talked in the car ride back to her place. But when I dropped her off she just gave me a hug and told me to give her a call later.
Im confused. Is this a normal typical behavior for a cancer women? How should I proceed?
RE: A quick dream question?
i understand that people can get together after a break up. however, im wondering if the chances are still good even if they havent spoken. Im still really up in the air with the bday. i honestly dont think i can handle seeing her right now. i saw her once for another friends bday and it was just a bad experience. we didnt talk, well she tried to with me and i just couldnt do it. it was hard because i still felt betrayed.
i dont know even know how i got back here in this situation. i thought i was over everything. to tell you honestly. i came on this site looking for answers to a question that i dont even know. i dont even know what answers im looking for anymore.
how do i regain that power?? how do i get the upper hand again?? i thought by NC her i would have the upper hand, but i dont. all i know is that life without her isnt all that its cracked up to be. im making huge changes in my life and it feels wrong not having her by my side. does that mean anything?? or am i just looking into it to much. it just doesnt feel right doing the things im doing without her. it feels like she has to be here. it feels like she was supposed to be here.
Im happy, but i know she is whats missing in my life. I thought it was just the idea of having some there. I thought it was just missing the feeling that someone gives you, but its not. i can honestly say that i miss her and i dont know what to do.
RE: A quick dream question?
I tried that........i waited a week and i still feel the same. and i am torn. torn at the fact that i thought i was over her already. instead i come to realize that i miss her even more. after the dream.........it got progressively stronger, the feelings i mean.
I mean can a relationship even happen still after a break up?? and how long is to long without NC?? is three months to long?? do i still even have a chance here??
Im supposed to see her for a bday in a couple weeks, well i got invited to it, but im not sure if i should go. any thoughts on that?? should i go??
RE: A quick dream question?
Thanks for the advice everyone i appreciate it. Laie---do you think that my dream could still be a connection i have with her?? the feelings i had after the dream was great. i felt calm maybe because in the dream she said why dont you call or talk to me again sometimes. i really didnt want to wake up. even though i knew it was a dream while i was having it, it was better than reality. its not that i havent accepted reality, but you are right there are still strong feelings there. I dont really want to accomplish anything right now. i honestly just want to star over you know, have a fresh start.
I just feel like we have so much history since we were together for the past five years that i just cant seem to let it go. I always wondered if she ever felt anything or want me to contact her or just her thinking bout me. do you think maybe that dream was just wishful thinking?? im just confused because like i said i never really have had dreams about her until lately. and the dreams were so vivid and so real. Something does keep nagging me to contact her, but i just dont want to get hurt again. i tried to call and contact her during the initial stages of the break-up and got no response. i was devastated because of the no response. i feel since then i have gotten a lot better and i just dont want to have to go through the break up stage again if she doesnt respond.
could it still be possible that we even get back together after three months NC?? or is all really to late.
RE: A quick dream question?
I do really love her.........in face since we have been separated i have seen my life without her and to tell you honestly Im not really a big fan of it. its not like ive been sitting around doing nothing dwelling on her and the past. i have been living normally, but it just doesnt seem right that im not sharing going forward with her you know. i really do want to go for her and i like i said i love her so much, but im not sure if the dream is accurate. i havent even talked to her since we have been broken up the past three months. shouldnt i just take that as a sign that all is over?? i mean if someone hasnt contacted any of you in three months would you take it as a sign that there is nothing left with that person??
im really confused now actually because im doing well and suddenly ive been dreaming about her thats not really happened to me this whole time.