Hi friend,

Tell me about it. My life has been turned all around topsy-turvey' for a while now. Cancer, July 13th..

My ex-husband and I are good friends, (married for over 17 years and divorced for about 8 yrs now), but I am still a little co-dependent upon him. He makes a lot more money than I do. z

Now he has a new girlfriend. It's very good for him as he, (a Scorpio) as he has been very lonely for years and always ate dinner alone. Something fresh and good finally happened for him. But It seems to me as if our relationship changed overnight. Still best friends and I believe we are "soul mates", but so different now. So different. Not necesarily bad - just different. All of my relationships seem different right now.

Also, I have been working out on a regular basis and actually losing weight which has not happened for years.... I'm looking and feeling great - another different.

I had been let go of my job (secretary/bookkeeper) about 8 months ago, and was actually happly about it until I started looking for another "white collar" job in this current economy.

I am so much more focused and sincere than I've been in months and it feels very different but very good and right.

My thought process seems absolutely cystal clear now - with no emotional issues blocking what really needs to be done and this is different too.

How to handle this ambiguos time right now? Just take each day as it comes.... I mean, what else can one do? God Bless Yoga and meditation!! It really does work.

For DMarie3Pe;

My life seems to be on the brink of all things new and exciting! But the past 6 years have been the hardest of my entire life...full of change, sadness, loss, and hardship. And I have suffered physically because of it....... OMG; this is so me!!!

And Redmarn; Hang in there, and please take some time out to take care of you - just you!!!

Good luck friends with all of your future endevors, and enjoy this roller-coaster,

Laura

Hi Y'all, I am currently going thru a rough patch. I am a single-mom with a wonderful 7 yr old Capricorn daughter. I have been jobless for over 7 months now. Tough market and money is so tight.

But I am still blessed to be a mom, a friend and to wake up each morning and see what the day will bring.....

Being a Cancer, some days I really have to push myself to get out there and make things happen. Friends help. So do walks and exercise. You never do know what is right around the corner that can change your world.

I was married to a Scorpio man for 17 years....... He was intelligent, self-centered and always going 100 mph..... Always exciting but he could really exhaust me. Being a Cancer woman, my home was my castle and I catered to his whims and whimsy.

We are still good friends today and he still doesn't understand my many moods or what I really needed out of the relationship. Scorpios can be very selfish and self-centered in many ways...

Find mutual interestes to keep you close and as the song says; hold on loosely but don't let go. He will want things his way of course but you must make him see your needs and wants as well. Rewarding and "tweaking" Scorpios goes a long way. They do love the care and nuturing you can rain on them. They also love to be the center of attention and spoiled by you.

Hope this helps,

Hi all,

My birthday is 7/13/61 @ 1:21 AM. I am a single mom and currently unemployed, latest statistic of our recent economy.......A secretary / bookkeeper by trade, but have been rejected time and time again in this tough employment market. I am feeling very isolated and homebound. I'm in my shell. I am so moody that I need "feel good" days to come out of my shell and participate with the world around me. My 7 year old helps. She is a Capricorn, and is my joy in life.

Some days I can be the most personable person around who is the hostest with the mostest. Other days I cannot tolerate people.....

I feel that I am too sensitive to office politics and tend to push people away. Only a few get past that hard shell into my inner sanctuary. I tend to hold on to my past too. Friends still with my ex husband who is a self-centered Scorpio.

At this stage in my life, I know that I need to change tactics and try for a new career that will make me happy and pay the bills. But what do I do?

Any suggestions out there for going forward with a positive new direction?