Im a Gemini and being a typical Gem male and not wanting to get hurt, pulled away and from a Leo. We were never really together b/c in my mind, she was my rebound fling/flirtation (timing) and she, well, has many other guys on call. At one point, she basically said she was in love with me, and I realized I HAD to RUNNNNN! I didn't want to risk my heart for a girl who everyone knows changes BFs faster than underwear. So I acted like a jerk basically and pretend like we never happened. This was a few years ago.

Recently upon seeing her again, I realized she still cared. (We're in the same circles of friends). I realized now, years later, from other people how badly I burned her and more importantly, that I still love her the way I did then. Not much as changed- the problem still lies in the fact that she's a Man-eater, and I'm scared of her breaking my heart. However, of 2 things I can't deny. 1) She has always been the BEST BEST girl to me-- if I had a checklist, she'll be perfection--gorgeous, sweet, funny, loyal, supportive, generous, etc etc. Nobody has ever EVER been so good to me 2) I love her and our connection is deeper than with my 1st love

QUESTION now is: Do you think a LEO would forgive and take me back? And how am I suppose to explain my past actions--"I was a beeping jerk to you b/c I heard you're a slut, that's why I had to run away?!?" LOL

Worthy, that's great. Aquarius is one of Geminis' best matches. I personally love Aquas. Key to Gemini's heart-- we like to be appreciated. The fact that you love the intelligence and humor, is golden. Because to be honest, I want people to respect my wit and intelligence more than my looks. In fact, sometimes it's very unnerving to me if a random woman stares at me too long. It makes me feel like just a piece of meat, and in my mind, I'm so much more than my looks. But yes, Aquarius and Gemini are fantastic together!

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Gem Male here- I feel compelled to reply as Gems always get a bad rap and are misunderstood. Just scanning through some of the posts and realized I can relate so perhaps here's some insight. But I can only speak for myself, although I do believe my general viewpoints are valid and typical Gem thoughts.

1. on WOMANIZING- Let's get this straight. A) Gems are charmers and love to make ppl smile- like a Service to brighten up the world- therefore most people say it's flirting- which is true but only to a degree B) People, women tend to tell me I'm hot and want to jump me- not being narcissistic, but it is what it is. C) Its not that my intention is to get every woman into bed when being "flirty"--I just like being social. "FLIRTING"- is MENTAL stimulation for me more than it is a vehicle to get her into bed. If I realize she wants me, I still could resist- but if there isn't reason to, why NOT have a little fun and know someone a little better- make a new friend?

2. COMMITMENT- Yes the "Greener Pastures" idealism is VERY TRUE and something that has to be worked on. A) Gems above all see life as MY life- individualistic. We try hard to always find the best "fit" for everything b/c we want to live the best possible fulfilling life in our opinion as we could-- idealists if you will. THEREFORE, the idea of COMMITMENT to ONE person is scary b/c we are never 100% sure if that person is 100% IDEAL -- and b/c Gems idea of "IDEAL" may change. COMMIT= you're asking me to Forsake all other people on Planet Earth and basically saying "It's YOU I choose above everyone else-- no one better for me than you--out of a few BILLION people"

we may dramatize it-- but can you kinda see why it's SCARY to us?

3. DAY n NIGHT--- here's the weird thing, maybe this only pertains to me, but being a Fraternity guy, my GOOD/EVIL traits do show up, but mainly during the Day and another at Night-- and in need to 2 DIFFERENT types of women.

"DAY" me--- Loving, Affectionate, completely absorbed. Let's say I have a Girlfriend (meaning i must have liked her alot)-- she's usually the good looking, sweet, awesome girl next door type. My thoughts during the DAY could really care less about any girl-- NO MATTER how hot. Why? B/c I'm not MENTALLY into anyone else during the DAY other than this girl I'm with, or else I wouldn't choose to be with her in the 1st place......now NIGHT me well..

"NIGHT" me-- thrives on ENERGY, socializing and having a Fun, no Emotions GOOD time ("NIGHT" me usually turns on during the weekends @ the Clubs) In that state-- at a good party, girls flirting with me-- I don't pay attention to being "GOOD" and loyal b/c it doesn't fit with the atmosphere of the club or party. In this atmosphere-- ONLY THEN can a Hot girl who just wants me physically be able to seduce me b/c my MENTALITY at night in the party/club is totally in fun, no emotions mode.

That might sound bad-- but I've come to realize that- which's probably why some people say Gems need more than one girl to fit both sides. So yes, in a way, I want a nice/sweet girl to fit the good normal DAY life. Than, at the club, in NIGHT mode, it's more "No Holds Barred" have a good time socializing--- therefore needing a no strings attached, sexy girl that I DON"T WANT to have FEELINGS for, especially in the day.

I admit to the vices and a$$holeishness of it. But does this clarify anything?