A very good way of handling a cancer. We misunderstand too much affection, we don't trust it and decide it could be given too freely, therefore not genuine, we'd rather see 'hints' of a possible affection and try to 'discover' it for ourselves, that's when we'd chase you. It's cat and mouse. Keep it up, it's the way to not only win our interest, make yourself extra thrilling with the mystery, but also wins our hearts.

I do adore you fun loving Sagittarians. You're a wealth of knowledge, non-stop excitement and humorous. Keep doing what you're doing, I'm intrigued.

Will do and again thank you very much highpriestess.

I thought Jenever covered some good thoughts to think into.

You seem very concerned for her, and that is kind-hearted. I'm glad to know concern still exists.

She has so many requests of you, this puts up a red flag and I worry she'll take full advantage of your willingness to be kind. But I don't think she has any thoughts to you and your well-being.

I've seen friends down on luck, I've too been in needy spots, but neither they nor I really went asking for help. Friends jump in if they see a dire need, do her friend's feel worried for her well-being and health/food, etc.? I'd never say not to feed someone. It's such a hard choice. If you worry she may really need food, try to get her friend's attention towards it or somehow help without becoming too involved with her further until you have a better idea of what she's up to or not.

I've been in a situation with a friend who'd been without food due to selling all he had for drugs. And as a friend I felt the need to buy him groceries. He ended up selling most of it for his fix as well, but honestly, I've never regretted buying the food. Knowing he'd sold it, I'd still make the same choice if put in the same position again.

It's food and starvation is a scary feeling. Going to sleep on an empty stomach is a very hard night or nights. We ended up just cooking big meals at my house and inviting him to join. It worked out well that way. I always think an open table to friends is never wrong.

Go with your gut, but try to watch for red flags too.

The Sagi I've been curious on has a Libra moon, I believe.

Again, thanks for giving me some ideas to think over.

I'm going to spend some time reading up on Capi's and Libras and see if anything sparks up.

Thanks much highpriestess.

I only know of one cap guy, I'd dated him exclusively, but ended it due to issues there. He was a very fun catch till things had soured. Would be interesting to happen upon another capi.

I've never met a Libra male.

Recently ended a long 10 year marriage to a Scorpio (he's exhausted my strength and emotions, tried to suck me dry of happiness). So now I'm free and thrilled to be, but worried I'll carry over a lot of 'independence' into new relationships due to being controlled in that marriage.

I'm drawn to Sagi males. I don't mind their freedom search and adore their wealth of knowledge. They keep me highly entertained with new adventure, the spontaneity is a plus. With my astrological set-up, do Sagi males mingle well with my type in relationships?

They say Cancers and Sagi aren't very tight match-ups. But, they seem to magnet me.

And I like that. A confused cancer, lol.

I appreciate the look-see you've given me.

I'm a Cancer and I won't always make eye contact either. Depends on the amount of emotion being fired back at me (good or bad), sometimes it overwhelms me feeling it that I look away to keep 'control' of my own emotions.

A Libra ascendant...

Thanks highpriestess. I'm 12:13 pm in Cumberland, MD.

Hello highpriestess,

Would you be able to give me more insight into myself, especially into my troubles in the matters of the heart. Here's from my birthchart. I'm 7-8-76. Will my strong independence keep me from a secure relationship in the future, am I to be always alone because I refuse to succumb. Those sorts of questions stay with me.

Thank you much.

Sun Cancer 10th

Moon Sag. 3rd

Mercury Cancer 10th

Venus Cancer 10th

Mars Virgo 11th

Jupiter Taurus 8th

Saturn Leo 10th

Uranus Scorpio 2nd

Neptune Sag. 3rd

Pluto Libra 1st