Oh, my! I am a virgo and as you can probably tell by my name, I have a cancer man and am not entirely pleased with the situation, to put it mildly...
We fell for each other fast and hard. But then he suddenly ended it, with tears rolling down his face, said he was not good enough for me, that I would leave him eventually anyway and then disappeared for almost 4 months. We would still email and run into each other occasionally and every time that spark was still there. I tried to get over him but couldn't, no matter how hard I tried!
So finally, I told him I didn't care what he thought was going to happen, I loved him and I wanted him back. He came back. And now I fear everything he said was true.
He is moody, demanding, argumentative, always late, never doing what he says he's going to do. When something goes wrong, he blames everyone, including me. Am I being judgmental? Maybe, but am I supposed to just take this behaviour and smile? I feel I give and give and give and receive very little in return.
He is not all bad, of course. He can be the most loving, sweetest person on the planet! When he wants to be. He says he knows he is a hard person to get along with and he is trying harder with me than he has ever in any other relationship. I have spent several holidays with his family, whom he adores and I know that is very meaningful to him. I get the sense he wants to marry me and have children, all of which I would be thrilled to do but not in this current manifestation.
I need stability, the calm give and take of love, not this constant drama. I guess what I'm asking is, should I stay or walk?