Posts made by ienvan

"He doesn't want to talk about his feeeelings......." Hallo! He's a MAN!

What you see in the beginning of a relationship is what you GET. So as yourself: do you want to spend your life with what sounds like a high-maintenance person? She most likely will not get any easier. I would send her ONE last clear message, stating exactly how you feel. Then leave it to her.

I started reading the first pages on this thread, and finally skipped to the end. What a depressing read! "All this "Can I make him love me?"

May I offer a piece of hard-won wisdom here?

First: don't get all hung up on a Sun Sign. Astrology can be a priceless tool in a relationship but you have to look at the WHOLE.

Whether we are talking about Cancer or any other sign, what you see in those first weeks is what you'll get in the long term.

If the Cancer you are setting your heart on is disappearing on you for days, he will do something like it later on. If he tells you he suffers from bouts of depression, do NOT think that your love will fix him. It won't. It's inside him. Run NOW, while you can.

Love may mask problems in the first heady flush of pheromone-driven romance, but sooner or later our true colours shine through. If the attachment doesn't just happen, stop wasting your time and look elsewhere.