I have a big no HUGE dilema and i need help i simply dont know what to do anymore?? Im in love with a guy that doesnt seem to want to commit?? we bacame official aug.12th,2007 we broke up 2 months later. I dated others but somehow we just keep getting back together? these times un-officially. =/ he never likes to express his feelings towards me, but when I seem to move on (with another guy) he pops back into my life and asks me if he could be my "sancho" (man on the side) ofcourse i said no but later I end the relationship with my prior boyfriend and we talk again. I really get along with his whole family,and right when I think hes about to give in he tells me he doesnt want a relationship, he wants to get his degree. First of dont feel i get in the way of his education. HE seems to be the one dropping classes left and right? it honestly just seems like an excuse. He then proceeds to break my heart and tell me that he never gave me a reason to like him as much as I do. Now tell me is a kiss, hug or something else in that matter not a reason to fall in love?? do u actually need a reason? he said he didnt wanna get too sereous to the extent where he could hurt me, but honestly its too late for that. I still cant stop thinking about him though?? what should I do???