also- seehorse- i had the same problem as carly so i understand what she's saying. its not even about listening to instincts- because pisces will be loving one minute and then he disappears. so when u weigh the situation u see on the 1 hand he's very caring and sweet and interested and on the other he spaces out from time to time when he focuses on other tasks. it seems so innocent. because wen he returns from his spaced out sessions he is so loving. but in reality - its like keeping someone on a leash. seehorse, as a pisces, maybe you would not be this way, maybe you're more evolved. but some pisces will. the proof is out there.
oh and carly my pisces had a bunch of signs in aries and his moon in capricorn. so he was more cold. maybe that's your guys problem too. the abruptness of aries and the cold/distance of capricorn. find out his birth time and do a chart for him it'll show you some basic stuff abt him.