...Recently I thought that I finally found my lost love... sort of like in a movie when you get to the end and you hope to find true love and happiness. At the end of my movie I found myself worse then I was when all this started. It is called disappointment.. It is hard to describe the feeling I have when someone from the past comes back, tempts you into thinking is going to be right this time, and in the end i am being told that I m dumped but with an "encrypted" explanation this time..; At least this time is not an X. So I do not need my question mark. The reason as you all may want to know is that I spilled the soda on his boss. I wonder though who has agitated the soda to begin with? If you do not want a reaction, then don't produce a cause. But then.. he wants to stay "linked" maybe he will change his mind again. Perhaps he can come the 4th time back again and dump me again for another ridiculos reason. I thought perhaps Doug- this is his name- will quit his job at G Oil to finally be with me. Who cares about his boss? ... and as he said it was NOT intentional.. really. None can ever predict when a soda will spill.. but everyone knows not to open a soda if they shaked before. Another one of the break up reasons was that I did not appreciate the full value of his house- when all I wanted to say I love him for him not for his money.

What do you think about this. Do you think he will quit his job for me? or being at G Oil is more important than love?

suggestions are highly appreciated.

.. nothing for now.

you can only wait for the other woman to leave.. if you complain it will only get worse. If he feels he has a choice he will come back. Maybe?

I know situations when this is going on forever.. especially in Italian culture.

There is no divorce, just accepted cheating.. everyone in the family knows but it seems to work for them. Italian man will never get a divorce, but they will always have a girlfriend on the side. So is a no win situation if you are a woman... it is a bad situation for both of them..

is this man Italian?

someone wrote me this:

"As it says in the ancient Hebrew scriptures, "To every thing there is a season." A new season, a new cycle and the zodiac new year have just started ... producing a bounty of fresh energy for you to tap into.

As you feel the bright energy of the New Moon, which represents new beginnings, glowing in impetuous Aries, this is a great time for turning corners and jumping ahead. But it is a good idea to make sure you start the new season with the advantage of understanding where you are sitting in the larger cycles in your life."

here is how i interpret this:

Someone is insecure- he or she thinks everyone needs to KNOW of his great culture.

Some unasked propaganda?? and what culture has to do with what some of their people did or do? Nothing!!! But does any one cares that this is person is so illogical?

I also found someone writing a full website, actually a couple to pursue his fixed ideas...

then to feel good about his work... started quoting people of his own kind telling what a great job he did. Kind of like the Oscars nominations.. every year they promote each other.. in the same circle of friends.. and they call it international..

Madness went even further and it went to 9-11.. hello madness... how far someone can someone can go?... It is better to event new situations when someone may run out of SUPPORT in their ideas.. collaboration i say.. it's important to pursue their madness, their hate

and so is funding for their cause.. So they have to lie to their "Uncle" that is a different matter so they can get his support..

Will their uncle be so naive to believe them? they tried it before.. and it did not work

Your ever-present confidence seems to be AWOL -- and you're in a situation where a bit of pluck might come in handy. No worries, mate. Just fake it 'til you make it.

-.. who is fake in here "mate"?.. I think the ones that wrote this are the ones in trouble here..

"Not offending anyone could be tricky. That goes double for those hapless individuals who have incurred your wrath in the recent past. Concentrate on your affection for your paycheck."

• ..are they talking about themselves?.. If i were left alone by thE writers of those stupid messages perhaps I could concentrate on something more profitable.. but when they are there 24-7 how can one DO anything else? would you change your cloths with a stranger or strangers in the same room? would you take a bath when someone is watching you/

probably NOT

dalia-

maybe loving yourself is getting a better job to do then judging others.. do you think you could do a better thing with your time? I think so.. Is your life so perfect? Let me guess..

DFlawless-

what do you mean by he has lost interest.. and you make it like it is OK .

He needs to learn his lesson.. why let him get away? He will do it again, and another woman will suffer the same. Sorry, StrongEnoughDive... just prove your name.

.. and Flawless.. i think you have deleted him right a week from that site, didn't you?

..and Flawlesss I don't know if it is your age or your memory but it was not only 3 times..

Maybe 100 plus times.. and yes 3 times romantic.

• what about the date on Las Olas?

• what about your house?

• what about his house?-

• what about the Library..?

• what about the storage?

• what about the Park?

• what about the store?

3times is when you see 3 times only someone in your life. None can write that much without a REAL PHYSICAL connection... not an imaginary one!

RNRchick- I heard your advice before. I remember you are the "beautiful, sexy one" that trashes people because they don't marry every looser they meet online. And is true men don't want their wives to be sexy they want to take a picture of them and put them on the wall.

Now again you come with wise words-

Hello? There is an ISSUE HERE- how about getting RESOLVED before you go meet people in town. By the way which town - since the plans are to get roots somewhere else.

... yes our MinusOne Character is RUNNING from Jumbo people perhaps!! How about our MinusOne wanted to stay in Florida until Jumbo people harassed her... stole her money.. trashed her.. How about MinusOne had a wonderful Job in Florida as well and an awesome manager that spent nights helping her out in her career.. but all these were stolen from her by the Jumbo people that asked her to come to Court again and again and again..

In Court none ever listened to her story, none ever cared about what happened!!

It is NOT OVER until Jumbo PEOPLE get EVERYTHING THEY STOLE FROM HER_

AND I MEAN EVERYTHING_ GOT THAT?

This looks like a cheap Hollywood jumbo production..

• where the producer is Jumbo, the characters in the movie are Jumbo- minus the ONE ; the script is jumbo, pretty much everything is "jumbo proof";

• does it even matter what the "MINUS ONE" character has to say;

That is because the Jumbo conclusion is already made and verdict is by DEFAULT GUILTY!!

In reality this is not a Hollywood production but someone's life you are messing with!!

Jumbo people trashed, attacked him and beat him up and will NOT stop until he will become totally "jumbo proof";

• my question is when the "friend" puts in Jail and in Hospital and he lies so he will come out clean where do you write?