I'm and Aries (female) living with a Leo (male) and it was extrememly difficult on my end to commit fully to the relationship. Aries, both male and female are "me" centered folks, but selfish? NO!!!! we love more than you can ever know, the problem is with us...there's doubt, there's fear and there's an inferiority complex lurking beneath the surface of every aries (again, both male and female) depending upon other placements in his chart, my advice is to talk this out face to face, schedule another visit to Quebec and tell him how you feel, once and for all....if he's still shuffling away, then you must take the high road and move on.

I agree with all the posts. I'm in a relationship with a Leo man as well and I have to let him take the lead, that is in his nature, otherwise he will sulk. Leo's need lots of attention, and once their pride is wounded, they will shut down on you. They are very sweet people, and loyal to the death, so don't worry about losing this guy. Just let him take the lead, he is ruled by the sun, and eventually, that big heart of his will shine.

beautasia,

I'm in a relationship with a Leo, and I'm an pisces/aries cusp, so at first, yeah, it was very difficult, I was very reluctant, but he was very sweet and we clicked immediately, talking all the time. We're great friends as well as lovers, and I have learned to let him take the reins, although from time to time, My aries attitude and stubbornness gets the better of me, and I overdo it. He is very sweet and a typical leo...he ignores my outbursts as if mere flies in his face. Eventually, I get back to realizing who's in charge and we're back to being happy and yes, he's very loyal. I tell him many times I don't deserve him...yes, like the leo he is, he blushes and eats it up! : )

I would say Scorpios are hard to understand because they are very quiet and secretive about their lives, and maybe that's a good thing. Some things should be kept secret. I've been around a lot of gemini's, my father was a gemini and my sister was a gemini, and I had several friends that are geminis, and I think, by far, they are the smartest, most sociable, moody, yes, but so is everyone....

I think the most difficult, in my life experiences would have to be Aries, only because I am one. Aries people are a mass of contradictions, power struggles, temper tantrums, cold feet, cold heart. People like to think they've got us figured out, but see, that's the game we play. We want people to think one way about us, our public face. In private, it's a whole different story.

Many will say Aries people are ful of courage and initiative, but that's only when our backs are up against the wall. In our youth, we want to take charge because our primal nature tells us to. Waiting for Godot is not in our vocabulary, sort of speak. As we get older, and the world beats us down, we lose that inititive and are more sheepish when it comes to life in general. Aries, of all of the signs are true Loners of the zodiac. We want everything, and yet are masters at nothing.

Hi fellow Arians!!!!!

I'm a double aries: Aries sun/Aries moon with Sag rising! I have a lot of water and air influence in my chart as well and try not to display a lot of aries temperment. I am impatient (too impatient) when people aren't moving as fast as I want them too, my motto is "move faster or else!!!!" (ha, ha|). I am pushy, bossy, and opinionated (especially about an injustice i see). I don't forget hurts but I do forgive (up to a point) people are people, and I think about how I want to be forgiven if I did someone wrong. Do unto others as you want them to do unto you, is the ancient proverb.

I have a well of emotion, and that is my pisces side speaking. I was born when the sun was just 3 degrees into aries, so that's cusp, borderline personality...I cry and care too much for people and can't stand human suffering. Always helpful, way to naive but not willing to play fool for no one, and yes I am a loner sometimes, don't like the smothering, the clinging, and I don't like, I REALLY DON'T LIKE taking directions or advice from ANYONE....except my boyfriend...who's a LEO, and his advice is usually on the money...

I'm a mass of contradictions sometimes...talkative to the point where people are telling me to shut up...then too quiet when people are asking "what's wrong with you?" I'm moody, yet funny and love to laugh, sometimes that aries sadism comes into play, but as I mature, I learn to quiet that dark beast down...

Okay, I'm done...just wanted to share...of course, since we're all aries people here...We're all great, fun people and every aries I've met are truely intelligent, very funny and very, veeerrrry sweet...love and peace to you all : )

dear soul shock,

You may have already done this, but a more comprehensive reading requires birth times (exact time of birth if possible..) and place of birth...check out tarot.com or another astrology web site, (astrolabe.com and astro.com are very good) to get a detailed, compatibility reading, most of these sites are free and easy to do...give it a shot and let us folks here in the blogosphere know how it turns out.... : )

dear intrigued,

Thank You so much, I do need to let up and play...very inspiring!!! again, much thanks..melissa : )

hello intrigued,

My name is melissa and I'm wondering if you can do a reading for me as well. I'm having problems with work, co workers and my superiors. I'm tired and I'm not motivated any more. I'm going to turn 36 soon and I feel old, and i'm scared...I don't know what the direction my life is going..please...when you can..when you have time...thank you

cslow...I did this with an aries male, and I'm an aries female. I flirted and flirted and talked a good game, then he was serious and wanted more out of the friendship and I backed off...Aries people in general want to settle down, we dream about constantly...I'm with a leo now, and he's very sweet, and we make it work..However, in your case, have an astrologer look at both your birth charts to see if there's compatibility...no matter how much you're in love with this person, if it isn't in the "stars"...it isn't meant to be...heartbreaking as that sounds, there's more to his personality than just being born an aries....hope this helps some...

I'm a march aries and I've dated aries men. They are sweet hearts, when they want to be. But do not marry one. Aries people are very, very, VERY BOSSY. I should know...lol!!! but they make great friends, very loyal and very funny and the majority of aries men are extremely bright and gifted in whatever field they decide to pursue. Just remember, like the aries female.. aries men are very sensitive, and very machismo...best of luck to you all..