How can I tell if my husband is being deceptive in his statements and his situation while in Iraq? He bought a beautiful gift on line day after my BD , but it was not for me, i questioned it, and he stated "we buy things for the guys here". Nothing more was said yet he never acknowledged my BD at all, nothing to even remotely say he was sorry he forgot it etc. What is going on? Is there another woman, is this just a fling due to the stress of war time..he is a contractor in Iraq, been over seas for 4 years.
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my husband is in Iraq, has been working over seas for 4 years, he had a fling with a woman before we were married, all was well when he came home, we got married and even renewed our vows a second time when he was home between tours. Problem now is since being back in Iraq, all was good, until his emails changed, no more Love you's, no more cute names, babe , honey etc, then questions about $$ arose , almost an angry tone, then he told em he wants to "talk" when he gets home, that he loves me but is not in love with me, and that he is tired and he has tried to tell himself that he is..what do I think? Is it the stress of the job, the place he is in, or has he found someone else? we have been living together 10 years and married over 3 years , he is a Taurus, I am a Libra..what is going on...he is good one email, distant the next..I am so confused as to what to think...he says wait till I get home..that will be 7 months from now.