It's nice to get a little insight into the Virgo brain harry.... u guys can be very mysterious and confusing sending mixed signals.... maybe you come across like that to her.. since u are not stating anything definite but giving clues.... what i see is that she is telling you directly and you are still wondering. whereas you bought her the shoes and she may still be unsure. i am involved with a virgo man for a 1.5 years too and up to this day I am still confused how he feels or what he thinks because reading you guys is not easy!!!! i have to look for very subtle clues and then I am not even sure if it is a clue or just normal behaviour peculiar to him that he would apply to anyone else .... so in a nutshell be more direct.