run run run as fast as you can from a cancer man they are crazy google countdown to crazy and read about them it will give you more insight. i was dating a cancer man for about 7 months and started to fall in love. i thought he was falling for me too but i went to vegas with my daughter( he knew i had an upcoming trip) everything was great b4 i left and then when i saw him upon returning he was all moody and grumpy and we didn't talk for a month. anyway to make a long story short we got back together and started building our relationship stronger than before. well at thanksgiving last year we made plans for him to stop by my house because he was going to a friends house for his main dinner. well a day or 2 before the holiday a girlfriend of mine invited me to her house instead (i never would have accepted if my house was the main house for him to come to for dinner) anyway, i called and told him about my change in plans and he seemed fine and we made plans to get together the evening of thanksgiving instead. well he blew me off that night and he never called or text me again. no explanation, no nothing. i was left heartbroken and wondering wtf? i unexpectedly ran into him a few months later and we just busted out talking like nothing ever happened. lol anyway he works in a public place that i frequent every now and then (i don't let him see me too much) and we just talk like old friends neither one of us brings up the incident but i did learn that he still has my # in his phone. i'm like what's the point he never uses it. anyway i was as brokenhearted as brokenhearted could be and it took me exactly 1 year but i am over it. i still love him but the hurt is gone. even when i see him so i think friends with cancer men is fine or maybe friends w/benefits if you are strong enough, but a relationship no it won't happen they are too closed off emotionally and will cause you great confusion and hurt in the end.

thanks you guys for your responses to my post. i don't think he is married because when i ran into him, i purposely looked at his left hand. my spidey senses didn't tell me that he was married anyway. cancer men are just weirdos. all that female energy mixing with gender just messes them up i guess. while we were dating, i let him control the pace mostly. it was pretty slow but i knew that he liked me so i was patient and i'm normally not. he just blindsided me when he left. fell in love over time and the nice dates that he planned for us, not just because i am a type to post on forums. i searched online just looking for some type of closure that i am sure i will never get. even if they do get married, who is gonna put up with all that moodiness? noone.

i fell in love with a cancer man that i was dating for 9 months and i am pretty certain that he was in love with me too jusging by the way that he would pursue me ....also like you said i would not have felt him so strongly if he did not feel it. in any case, on thanksgiving of 2010, he left me without a word. no explanation, no nothing just went away. i just so happened to bump into him recently and unexpectedly after 5 months and we just started talking like nothing ever happened but still nothing on his part about why he broke up with me. i am still not over it but i didn't let onto that with him. whoever posted above that they work their way in until we can't breath w/o them and then abruptly disappear, hit the nail on the head about the pain being just as great as the happiness is exactly how i am still feeeling. with the commanalities of posts here as well as other sites about cancer men just disappearing, it has to be a cancer trait, cause apparently he could give a rats behind about how he hurt me.

run now as fast as you can away from him. all cancer men are weirdos in way or another. mine broke up with me after seven months of dating for no reason. he blew me off on thanksgiving and i haven't heard from him since. and no he is not married or anything like that, they are very self serving and will protect themselves and not give two squirts of pee about your feelings. leave now before more attatchment and spare yourself great emotional pain. it's been 3 months since mine and i am still not over him.

oh and p.s. another one i dated still lived at home and he was 38. they socially and developementally strange

leave him alone now and save yourself great emotional pain in the future. all cancers are weirdos. one still lived at home with his mom (38) the other one left me without a word after 6 months of dating and getting along just fine. the other stared at young girls every chance he got and he is a grown man. gross. actually come to think of it, they all stared at teenagers. and trust me they were well out of their teenage years

hi everyone. i hope you had nice holidays. any advice at all is appreciated. i was dating a cancer male for about 7 months. everything was going fine, in fact i thought that we were really starting to fall for each other. in any case, thoughout the last 7 months of dating, he did a couple of small disappearing acts but would always come back with awesome date plans. right before thanksgiving we spent the weekend together and had our first little tiff. wasn't really an argument just a minor power struggle that some couples seem to face after the initial first few months of dating. the wednesday befor thanksgiving, he sent me a text asking what time he should drop over for thanksgiving. my house was not the primary house that he was going to come to for dinner so at the last minute i was invited to a good friends home and i accepted. in response to his text i asked him to call me because i had a change in plans. he called, i explained what was going on he seem fine and we even made plans to meet at his friends house on the evening of thanksgiving so we could see each other.... so i text him on thanksgiving to let him know that i am still at my friends but leaving soon. he immediately texted back that he didn't feel good and he would not be celebrating. i was disappointed but i i asked him if he was ok and left it at that. well since then it's been a lil over a month and i have not heard from him at all. no text no call nothing. it hurts really bad because i have no idea what happened. if he didn't want to date me anymore at least tell me why so i have clsure and can move on. now i'm just stuck in limbo trying to figure out what happened. i have not called him because i think that the man should do most of the pursuing in a relationship.

any advice would be helpful as i have never had a man just up and sever all contact w/o a reason why. i know that they do not like confrontation but he's told me that he let other woman from the past know when it was over. why not me?