that the assumption that he loves her....cancers are also very dutiful. if he IS friends with your sag boy he would have to see you as the match in heaven to even go there, were talking permanant life sentence status....who was friends first? him and your sag? or him and you? that will have a lot to do with it.

you ae not alone, you are never alone!

so then you have to sit down with yourself and make a plan.

you have to decide how serious and controlling your husband IS and WILL try to be

will it get physical, will he try to stop you or will he let you go.

do not think i am naiive i have been there before

i have had hands placed on me ib ways no woman should ever have to experience

so before i left i prepared

i researched state laws

legal fees

i saved for the ride out of the storm i lived in

i still live with the fear that he will reappear somewhere when i am least expecting in

no reading will tell you more than you all ready know inside yourself on topics such as this

-love luck and the spirits be at your side everystep of the way

did jock chuckle a lot?

wow thats a lot of questions. are you doing them all single card reading style? I think we need to focus on you. you are feeling panicy about this guy right? breathe! its exciting yes? liking somebody and wondering what there next move is?

numbers 1 and 2 are good.

caution 3 could be out of text. ask about the motive? what is there nature? internal or external(wink) bery important that you understant victory means many things and sometimes it means that somebody is also loosing( perhaps another prospect)also number 3 is more comlicated then a 1card spreas, i would do a 3 card on that to see where hes recently been relationship wise and wear he is in his heart and where he is ready to go.

number4. where did you get that interpretation of the devil card? you need to read more on what the devil means. also its not fair to ask WHY he isnt doing something, maybe there is something alse that you could be dong?

number 5 the fool. maybe since he is unsure of what he wants with you( or maybe your have not made it clear about what you want from him) is the true answer to number 4. the devil plus the foool can be a recipe for a rocky start. unharnessed carnal energyis yiles! raw at best. he like you, physically and mentally, but as of now thats all he know. give it time, give him time to get to know you.

7 is good would you want it any other way?

number 8 who is the subject of the question? him or you? just because the card is female doesnt mean it represents a female. men can have these qualtities. and dont act like anything, beeeeeee yourself!!!!! the heirophant is more of his ideals. for himself not for you. you stick to your own ideals and values and just let it all play out.

9 high priestess: he is looking for the right advice to seek out his next move: be it a sign, a comment at the breakfast table with his mother that evokes the though of you. the priestess represents seeking of knowledge, be patient and be yourself, he will take sometime to figure out what he needs to get over to you. ohh. exciting isnt it?

so you experienced an awakening? no you not crazy its real.

hows it working for you now?

most capricorns i know are bussiness savvy. good with managing people, what are you interested in? do you like to cook? the maybe an executive chef. If you like visual arts, then perhaps an arts director for a museum or school. what ever it is that you enjoy doing naturally look for the manegerial or supervisory position for that job, find out what the qualifications are necessary (i.e. a bachellorsd degree or relevant experiences) and star taking steps to achiev what you need to. volunteer! it is invaluable for experience.and it lets you really see the day to day jobs specs from the sideline, all the whil adding to your resume.

good luck!

namaste

first all star of by saying that of course you have spiritual guidance with you.you are aware of what they are too. stop. sit quietely in your sacred space. listen to whats going on inside you and trust on your self. take a piece of paper and draw on it a large circle. write down the things that you wouls like to obtain inside of the circle draw a symbold that represents you. a symbol that you are in tune with inside that circle. placing yourself sybolically inside that circle with those things. keep this paper with you. look upon it and read aloud those things....

ex:

I will it that i am succesfull in findind a respectable job.(note: its okay to be alittle specific on these things, just not unrealistic details)

I want to obtain a working vehicle.

etc.

I would start with three to five things. read them outloud to yourseld every morning, noon, and night. they are called affirmations. and you are asking the world to gift you with these things.

do you still use? im not being presumtious. my spirit guide is just sharing with me about that. its okay you are not alone.

when you cant sleep at night write! write about all of the things going on in your head. do not fight this . just let it flow. do not try to be correct or smart, not perfectionism here, just write exactly how it comes out is fine. it does not matter if it is even legible. it is the language from your soul. just write it all and when your done read your affirmations page. say a prayer of grace and thanks to your higher powers( whomever they are, whatever you call them)

and you will find yourself more at peace.

try to write at night before you lay down at night. say a prayer of letting go( the words should alway be entirely your own) write it all out then be at peace in your own skin. it will get easier wiht time, and the more you do these things the more gentle you will be with yourself.

if you are struggling simply start a new topic adressed to Ranita, and the spirits will tell me to find it.

namaste

stop. quiet your mind. shh. tell the racing thoughts to shushhh. listen to that voice deep down inside yourself. as you do it will grow louder. shhhhh the racing thoughts. listen to inside yo inside yourself. if you are unhappy. then what can you do to change that. it is natural to become atracted to other men . especially after that loud POP! its the soumd of the realization that this is your life. thats all it is? yes its your life. and it is what you make of it. The POP usually occurs around 5-10 years when we have become to comfortable in our lives. marriage is a choice to love someone come hell or highwater. love or no love. I am not against divorce, i just want to be clear that the "in love" feelings do fade into a more substantial appreciative realistic concept of love.have you lost yourself? are you still just as active and lively as you were when you were dating your current husband? my guess would be no. so then what has happened? the answer will be in what you do. no matter who you are with and who you date. you have to have a firm grip on who you are. fantasy men are great, buy some personal toys! if you are truly miserable than be honest with yourself and your husband. never do something you wouldnt want done to you. if this other man left his wifr for you what makes you think he wouldnt do it to you?

stop. listen inside yourslf. meditate and pray.

-namaste

kk

i am not a professional reader, (i have a day job) but i will be happy to assist you in any way that i can. I ask ony for the correct spelling of your name and your birthdate (its easier to rule out other persons with the same name.) i like to be as specific as possible so if you can be specific as to what area of your life you need the most advice.

namaste

-Ranita