yeah, thats the nail on the head.
There were some issues that kept getting dropped on her part and my part from her lack of communication. then and only then angry messages got the communication going .......bad news travels fast. I took marriage conseling..........she didn 't care ......and snuck away in the night with her computer(warcraft addict 20 hrs a day) No note that said I'm gone or good bye.
So she is staying at her "frenemys" house and that girl put walls up so me and the kids dont get to go there or communicate often. She has been trying to get SSI for 6 years and to no avail. And got a job babysitting and cleaning houses-she never did either here at all. So in the last 10 weeks I have started texting and having some communication but she says her charger is busted.....or not near a regular phone....blah blah .....
I only wanted to try to save what I feel was great love.....that got pushed over by daily life ......And I thought it was all fine. It wasn't with her apparently, and I still have no answers to anything I asked her........she has never replied to email.....excuse is "computer video card is broken"
I am thankful for your insight........you know all of it just by using your skills and don't even know me....you are super.....and now I have worked on me and moved on. The kids are doing super now too. We actually spend a lot of time doing things that are creative.
Once again..........thank you from the bottom of my heart, Brett