A virgo man is a walking, talking dichotomy. They behave one way, but below the surface something else exists. The problem is that emotions are not concrete. They are gray, elusive, and mysterious. They can be confusing, disorienting, and difficult, especially for someone who has a tendency to protect themselves with a wall...Patience is the key...and trusting your instincts is also essential.

We all show affection in our own ways. For a cancer, it might be cooking a meal, taking care of others, nurturing. For a virgo man, it is quite different..(at least in my experience). They act, move, constantly analyze, give advice, and try to help build. They operate mainly from their heads, but don't be fooled. There is an amazing wealth of emotion, tenderness, care, and soul lying beneath the surface. They just do not like to operate in gray. Black/white. Yes/no..validate with the senses. Emotions you cannot validate in that way.

So, be patient. Do what you have been doing, but verbalize it in a way that gives him options and a chance to work through it mentally first. He will not clue you in once he has had a chance to process it. Don't rush it, don't get too stuck in your head, and most of all enjoy it. He is kind-spirited, intelligent, and thoughful. He just processes things on a different level, from a different perspective What you value he may not understand. Give him a chance to do just that. Keep doing what you are doing If he does not like it, he will let you know.

I do believe in this. It is an amazing feeling and incredibly hard to deny...because you feel it so much beyond your skin.

My experience was with a virgo, as well. I am a pisces. He was the most incredible man I have known and many of our experiences were ethereal and extraordinary. He certainly affected me on a soul level. A psychic even told me he was my soul mate. Apparently, we have been trying for lifetimes to get together...

More times than not, we would not even have to say anything to each other...we just understood. For instance, we were playing cards with a bunch of his friends one night and I was sitting there thinking, "Hmm..some tea sounds nice, and I saw some M and M's in there." No big deal, harmless thought...about five minutes later he gets up...comes back with a glass of hot tea and a handful of M and M's. I was speachless...I asked him what he was doing? He said, "You said you wanted some tea and M and M's." I said, "No, I thought it!" Everyone just stared at us, wondering what the heck was going on... It may seem insignificant, but to me, it was incredible...something so simple as a thought, turned out to be something incredibly awakening...

We had many other experiences...laying next to each other, falling asleep, waking up and finding out that we had the same dream...The list goes on.

And although he and I are no longer together in the physical sense (boyfriend/girlfriend), etc, he never leaves me...I can tell when he is having a bad day, needs something, or even when he is happy. All I do is close my eyes...

So, to answer your question. Yes, I do believe it. It is amazing..:) I would love to hear some of your experiences.

Take care!

Noahscloud27

Being a fish is hard work. LOL So many emotions, so many people influencing you. It is difficult to know which direction to swim in, especially when you agree with everyone.

But along with being hard work, it is also pretty amazing. The ability to tune in with other people helps endear them to you, but also allows for that connection that I think us fish feed on. You can celebrate the joys and triumphs of others as if they were your own. It is quite an amazing feeling, but one that you can easily become lost in.

My suggestion to you would be to protect yourself. As a very sensitive person (pisces sun, cancer moon, scorpio rising), the best gift I have given myself is developing a filtering system. Meditation is certainly a wonderful outlet. I know others who use art, music, writing, drawing...anything creative. Your cappy moon may enjoy some structure, so create a routine, especially for when you are feeling extremely overwhelmed. You must have an outlet, as well as take time for yourself. Silence and solidarity are essential. I have worked in an ER for many years, and the one thing I do when I come home is lock myself in the bathroom--take a long bath, candles, etc...just in an attempt to decompress and wash away the emotions of the day. It's not to say that you cannot be affected by them or learn from them or even enjoy them. You just have to be able to seperate them from yourself so that they do not become so much a part of you that you feel bogged down.

Your virgo mother is your guide, and you are her's. You both possess so many of the same qualities, but they come from different places. The perspectives are different, but essentially you are walking the same path. Keep that in mind. Your sensitivity and her logical mind can find comfort in each other. She is trying to protect you and you are teaching her to feel more with her heart.. Good luck to you!

Lovely,

I cannot say what each symbol in your dream means, but know that dreams can be confusing, overwhelming, and a bit strange. But buried within them is wealth of information, I would recommend starting dream journal. I keep one by my bedside and refer to it often. I also use many tools (internet, books, intuition) to help decipher the ones that stick out in my head. It helps tremendously.

This Gemini friend is someone that you have feelings for? Being surrounded by women may just be that he is very chatty, sociable, or very likeable. Gemini's are typically social butterflies--unless they have a watery moon or rising. You may see him as this type of person or there may be something going on that you are not admitting. Perhaps you are afraid of him selecting someone else. Without much information on your involvement with him, it is difficult to say exactly what it means. Looking inside yourself will certainly help figure this out.

The same shoes element is very interesting. Shoes represent your level of being grounded, your foundation, your beliefs, and in a way your self-esteem. It is your support. Perhaps the shoes were meant to represent that there is something similar between you that provides you some sort of comfort. Your beliefs are the same, your foundation/starting off point is the same, or that in some way he has given you a new perspective. Again, without much information on the level of involvement of the Gemini guy, I cannot say for certain what this means.

A flying turtle: perhaps you feel sluggish in a way, hoping to find wings.

Lion: pride, family, strength, loyality. Was the lion angry, eating, sleeping? What was the lion doing in your dream?

A little girl princess: essence of youth, childhood hopes and dream? Was she singing, dancing, or throwing a fit? LOL

Car: were you driving, in the passenger seat, or seeing the car pass by? Red is life and vitality, If you were driving, I would assume that you have passion or are searching for something to follow. If you were in the passenger seat or the backseat, you may feel like someone else is in control.

Swimming pool: Were you in the pool? Looking down at it? Water signifies emotions...

Dance class: Did you actively participate or just an on-looker? Dancing, obviously, signifies celebration of some sort. If you participated, then you are celebrating some inner resolution or triumph..perhaps something has happened that you were celebrating or feeling happy about. If you were an on-looker, perhaps there is something holding you back, or just on the brink of bringing to a closure. Again, it depends on the elements surrounding each symbol what they mean.

I hope this helps.