Well, chevelleman71, my analysis is that this relationship works best of all for friendship. If you want to know this girl longterm, friendship is better than a love affair, and a love affair is better than marriage. But of course I only base this on how you are now. If you can change and work out your problems, then things may be fine. Ultimately it's up to you. At least, if you know what the poroblems are, you can work on them.