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Sorry I missed this - I usually only check the 'Topics with no replies' for questions for me.
Your astrological profile shows that this is not a good combination for love. It is better for freindship or working together as it can be a bedrock of trust and understanding, a place to which the two of you can turn for thoughtful advice, empathy and support. Here you two are called on to be trustworthy mirrors of each other's feelings, reflecting them back to be viewed. You GG are among the few individuals who have the patience and insight to help this guy dig deeper into himself. He meanwhile can help you, with great gentleness, to bring your feelings out into the open and help dissolve the defenses you have built up. There is a strong empathic bond between you that can provide mutual protection and support. Yet although love and understanding are usually present, passion may be curiously absent. And your friend thrives on passion. As rewarding as this relationship can be, he may grow bored and long for greater intensity. If he should look elsewhere, or actually stray, you could retreat behind your protective wall, resolving never to give your heart away so readily again. And that would be a shame and would negate all that you have learnt here.