I am a cancer woman and have been dating a scorpio for over 2 years now. In the beginning we also had a allmost magnetic draw to each other, that is stil with us today. He is a very set in his ways man. I love him and all of his ways. As cancer's we also have our days when its best to leave us to our shells. I just let him be him and take his time for himself when he needs it. I think they just need to go think things through and then they will be back.. If he is bothering to text you or check your facebook acct then he is interested. He wouldn't spend his time even thinking about you if he wasn't. I know it can be hard, sometimes I want to shake my scorpio and make him open up to me but I've found if I just love him and let him he will talk to me about things when he is ready. I'm not saying it is easy but it is worth it. He has made me so happy and I can't ask for anything more. I had to learn to accept him for who he is and not try to change him. After all it was something about him that I had to get to know in the first place. I know as a cancer that I also can be very secretive at times and don't want others to try to push me for more than I am ready to give. I don't know what the future holds but I do hope he is a part of it in some way. I don't know If i was able to help you any but I hope so. As a cancer we love with all when we do love and that can be very scary but I have learnt that a scorpio can give me the same intense love that I give and that is all I could and would ever ask for in life. If you love (or think you can in the future) then don't give up.