Update: After 5 yrs of lovin this boy i went to his house yesterday just to say hi and now we are talking and seeing if we could be something more! im so happy, he's always had my <3. its mostly my mom puttin me out there but i just had to tell him straight up even tho i had a million butterflies in my stomach but thanx leoscorpion because your words also helped a bunch!

I am 17 and he is 18. It could just be me and trust issues though. He tells me that he wants me to be his only one but its just hard to believe hes so sure this fast.He has A lot of the same ways as the other cancer man I dated before so I'm very cautious of his words. I feel like hes player because he says all the right things, does little sweet things, maybe I should have said "Lady's Man". Also he's rushing when there's no need, I understand life is short and all but there's still values and respect he has to recognize. Every since the 1st day we met hes been telling me he wants me to only talk to him no one else. He told me he had some "friends" but he hasn't spent anytime with them cause hes always with me but that made it worse cause I had a feeling. He said hasn't done anything with them and I believe him there. Hes here with me almost everyday and he stays for hours too.

Here's the deal people...I'm a Gemini and Ive met Cancer man about 3 weeks ago. Ive dated Cancer men before and they always tell me what they think I wanna here, try to romance me, and just be a dream come true. I feel like hes a player doing what he does best, play girls but at the same time he comes over everyday since I met him. I don't know if its intuition that hes cheating or me scared of being tied down. He is very sweet guy but i feel like he's trying too hard too fast and he must want something in return that I'm not willing to give him(relations). We get along good at times but sometimes i just wanna hit him! We are too young and haven't known each other that long to be having all these problems. What should I do? Give up or stick it out? Please help!

Thank you leoscorpion! Those are REALLY great ideas! We've kissed 2 times and he's always engaged it but it would be something new and exciting if i were to kiss him. I'd seem confident which I'm not fully but I'm down for it .He told me he wants a woman not a girl when we were having a conversation about what he was looking for. I'm always making poems but I'm going to be more direct in them or send both a letter and short poem.Grown and sexy is the way to go. I'm sure he will like my new look and ill be in his arms by nightfall.

We talk every now and then because I moved from next door to him. I have friends next door so i go over there a lot and see him. I really think I should talk to him alone one day. I seen him recently and he told me he might be leaving to the marines in Jan or Apr, for 4-6 yrs. I really just wanna try to make the most of the time hes going to have here. I'm so sad and if I just let him leave without really letting him know how I feel I couldn't live with it. Thanks 4 your help worthy1248

I am thankful for everything that has happen in my life because I am a more mature and more aware person .

What should a Gemini Gal do to capture her Leo Mans heart. He plays really hard to get, sometimes plays full arrogance but I know he has to somewhat care for me. I really feel I am the best girl for him. They say Gemini's never feel like this but whats a girl to do? I really loved this boy for three years. We never went out but we used to talk., we would stop talking and start back. I'm so jaded, I need help peoples? Should I just move on, theres other men waiting for me to make my decision but every time I'm with someone I compare them to him & all the things I love about him and they ussally fall short.