I'm not a psychic, but I am a Libra woman....maybe I can help??? What's the problem?
Posts made by Geminilover52
RE: My husband died 9.23.2010
AWESOME reply to this poor, lost girl. I know exactly what you are talking about regarding your Grandma and your niece. For me it was my Dad and granddaughter (Love of my life).
It is an absolutely overwhelming and comforting feeling to know that death on earth is not the end. Great reply! I hope it helps her get through this!
RE: My husband died 9.23.2010
Oh, my Sweet Lord, Honey....
I am sooooo sorry about your loss! Reading this broke my heart! I cannot even imagine how you must be coping, especially when you are pregnant with your Love's baby. I am not a psychic and don't know how to communicate with the dead. I was just looking on here and saw your post and HAD to reply just to let you know that I care about you and the pain you are in. Indescribable pain, I imagine.
I do have my own beliefs about this whole subject. I truly believe that when we die all our pain is gone. Even the Bible says that. Unfortunately, when someone does leave us behind in this way, WE are the ones who are left to suffer; to try and determine whether or not we could have done anything to save the one we Love; to wonder if it was something we said or did to cause this. And God forbid the last memory we're left with is one of an argument or disagreement. Then you take on the guilt of it all and have to figure out how you can live with yourself. I have always thought that suicide was a very selfish thing to do because, as you feel now, loved ones worry that they could have seen around a corner they didn't even know they were approaching. It is so very hard to second guess yourself when the one you love isn't there anymore.
I am sure if your man had realized what he was leaving behind for you to deal with he wouldn't have done this. No one would wish that one someone they love. I do believe that people who have crossed over come to us in dreams. I've had that experience myself with more than one person I have loved. But, sometimes it takes a little time for our emotions to settle down for it to happen. And I have also experienced the feeling of someone with me and/or watching me when there is on one around but me and the dog. It has always been a comforting feeling, not one of fear. So, it may take a little while, but, if you are a spiritual person who is open to this type of experience, I believe you will feel it in time.
Sweetheart, I pray that, as time passes, you will be able to still your heart and find the peace you need to get you through this. I am a spiritual woman who believes in God and all He has promised. I don't know if you are a believer, but, it can sure help at a time like this. It will give you direction and SO MUCH PEACE in your heart about where and how your husband is now. Because, I believe with all my heart that he is with God. I hope this helps you, even if it's just to know that someone out there is praying for your heart to heal tonight and every day hereafter. May God bless that little baby as it grows inside you and all the days of it's precious life. Good luck to you, Sweet girl.
RE: Offering a full 10 card Celtic spread for those. . .
Hello Beautiful Firefly!
Thank you so much for your offer of a free reading! How generous of you for those of us who are having a hard time right now!! My question is: Will we see a great deal of change in our finances within the next several weeks? I am disabled with no income right now, dob 10/07/1957, hubby dob 06/06/1962...don't be afraid, he is a wonderful man!! Ha!Ha! Thank you so very, very much!
RE: WHATS WRONG WITH GEMINI MEN
I guess you just have to know a Gemini's ways to know how to deal with him. I've been with my Gem of a man for 22 years...married for 20 of those. He has put me through some crapstorms, to be honest, and I have wanted to beat him severly about the head and shoulders with a bat on more than one occaision. Being a Libra woman, I have weighed our relationship back and forth many, many times. My Dad was a Gemini...a very typical one at that. He was married 6 times and cheated on each and every one of those poor women...broke every one of their hearts. The man could never just be satisfied with the one he was with!!! I thought all Gem's must be like that, till I met mine. He is so lovable and sweet hearted! He tends to write poems and make handmade cards for me and also has done the same for our 3 daughters on many occaisions. He fancies himself a man's man, although he has such tender feelings. Most people who know him love him. He's funny and sincere, most of the time. I don't take any crap and put him in his place when he crosses the line. That is probably the one most important thing I can say to any woman who decides to date one of these mecurically minded guys. Don't let him get by with anything, and he IS gonna try to get by with EVERYTHING! They like to think of themselves as smarter than the average guy. I let him think he is, but, at the same time he knows I have his number. I compliment the way he looks often; that is very important to a Gemini man. He wants to know he is the best looking man in the room and if you let him think he is he won't feel the need to let other women do that for him. He also wants to know he is the best lover you've ever known. I can't tell if some of these traits are about being Gemini's or just MEN in general. Anyway, I have not always enjoyed the many personalities my man has shown me, but, for the most part, I have loved every minute of being his woman. He makes me feel like I am the most beautiful woman he has ever laid eyes on. LIAR! That is my response every time he tells me I'm beautiful. I think that is the secret with him, playfulness in the face of aggravation. Funny, in all these years this is the first time I've put that into words. Oh, yeah, the first 2 years of our relationship were frought with me asking, on any given day "Hey, wanna get married today?" with his answer being "Nah, not just yet." and then him asking and me saying no. Neither of us getting upset when the other said no. Then one Monday morning I said "Hey, what do ya think of getting married today?" him saying "Can I take the day off work?" to which I replied, "Heck yeh...It's your wedding day, fool!!" We called my brother and his sister and asked if they had time to watch us get married that day and headed to the courthouse. Light and breezy.....that's the secret. No pressure. Also, letting him know at all times that I am certainly capable of taking care of myself without him helps. Keeps him guessing. So, I guess a lot of what others on here have said is true. Getting all emotional and clingy is a definite no-no with these guys...gotta make em think you can live with them or without them. Truth be told, I wouldn't know what to do without him. Also, as for affection: when I want it, I just go get it. Sit on his lap, grab his face and lay a big fat one on him, snatch his booty now and again to let him know what's on my mind! You get the idea, right??? Bottom line....this guy isn't for everyone, but he's been perfect for me!!! Good Luck!!!!