Hi guys just wanted to say that some people are Narcissists, some are Sadists, some are even Schizophrenic. Its more down to character and mental state of mind than sun signs. I am a gemini myself and the opposite of whats been described here. Im introverted and loyal and put 100% into my relationships, usually to my disadvantage. Although i can believe Gemini men could be fickle cheats, my dad and my brother are both Gemini and u couldnt meet 2 nicer blokes, both loyal and caring. I have dated men of most signs except gemini, because i never met one i wanted to be with, but a Sagitarius was cold and distant, a Capricorn beat me up, a Scorpio lied and betrayed and my last, a Libra was the opposite of easy going and balanced. WE matched on paper, it was just down to character more than anything and i learned about the mental conditions i mentioned above. The problem is these men are out there, in the community and the workplace and they dont have warning signs on their head. The best advice i ever heard ( on Ricki Lake) was people only do what you let them do. I had never thought of it like that before, that I have the power, not them. So stay strong girls and dont let them do it - whatever their star sign ! x