Hi Daliolite, you've always been spot-on with your readings for me and I am very thankful for your help. If you have time, can you please do a reading regarding my home? I live with my children and rent a home. We love the home and are very happy here overall. My lease is almost up and the landlord contacted me to say that we need to discuss the lease since it's ending soon. I responded that I would like to renew it, and she stated that she needed to discuss it with her husband first. That was almost a week ago and I haven't heard back. I'm getting very nervous as it is difficult to find places for rent out here and my credit is not the best. I'm not sure if I should be applying to new places or what to do at this point in time. Please let me know if you see me renewing my lease or what will happen. I have enough money to pay March's rent early and I'm wondering if that would help my situation. Perhaps the landlord is still deciding what to do and there is time to change her mind if she is leaning towards not letting me renew. Thank you.

I posted this in another part of the forum, but I've also had good results with this section. If you see it twice on here, that's why.

Here's the situation:

I am slowly pulling myself away from my ex. We were supposed to be fixing things, but I realized that he was just stringing me along for his own personal gain. My feelings for him are almost gone, finally. We still talk daily, but not like we used to. Can you please tell me what my love life has in store for 2013? I'm wondering if I will meet somebody new and finally stop falling for my ex's charm - and if so, how. I work from home and don't get out much. I am not even sure if I am interested in dating anybody at the moment. Dealing with my ex has left me emotionally drained and I can't even imagine myself moving on, but I do know that I'd like to be married one day. Also, I'm wondering if I will have more children one day. I'd like to, but I'm getting older and worry that I will not meet another man (or fix things with my ex) in time.

Daliolite, can you please do a reading for me when you have a chance? I know you're busy. Your past readings have always been spot-on.

I am slowly pulling myself away from my ex. We were supposed to be fixing things, but I realized that he was just stringing me along for his own personal gain. My feelings for him are almost gone, finally. We still talk daily, but not like we used to. Can you please tell me what my love life has in store for 2013? I'm wondering if I will meet somebody new and finally stop falling for my ex's charm - and if so, how. I work from home and don't get out much. I am not even sure if I am interested in dating anybody at the moment. Dealing with my ex has left me emotionally drained and I can't even imagine myself moving on, but I do know that I'd like to be married one day.

Thanks!

My 9 year old constantly says things as I'm thinking them. They are very random things that a 9 year old wouldn't normally think of - it's not like she's just saying things like, "Oh, looks like rain today". It freaks me out sometimes because I literally feel like she can read my mind. She also answers questions before I ask them out loud. She has been doing this since she was 2 or 3. My grandma (who I've been dreaming about a lot lately) would do the same thing. I'm not sure if this type of thing runs in families or what. It's cool and interesting, but like I said, it freaks me out at times.

Do you think my daughter has some sort of gift? If not, what could be causing this? It's hard to believe that it's just a coincidence. Is there anything I should be doing to help her?

Hi,

I've been dreaming about people I don't know lately. Each time, they know me, and we talk for a bit. Often they have advice or a very important message for me. I also dream about my dead grandma quite a bit. Last night I dreamed about her again, but it was her voice in my other deceased grandmother's body. Super weird. Does any of this mean anything? Why are random strangers always giving me advice or relaying messages to me in my dreams? Last night, I know that one of the people told me that it's finally my time to meet the right man and that good things are coming in my life. I've had terrible relationships and am not even looking for a new man right now, so it was kind of crazy.

Thanks, Daliolite. Take your time. I appreciate it.

Hi Daliolite. You helped me before a few weeks ago, so I'm back. I have a few different questions/situations. If you are able to check any of them, I would really appreciate it. Thank you.

My ex is pressuring me hard to settle out of court. Our court date is in less than a month and I feel like I need more time to think things over. Your last reading said that things can be favorable in court depending on how I use my abilities. I don't know if it's best to settle quickly before our court date, go to court and request a continuance, or go to court and let the judge decide. I'm also confused about why he wants to settle all of a sudden - he's the one who initiated the stuff, and he's the one who always appeals everything and brags that he'll for sure get what he wants in the end. I'm wondering if maybe he's scared that something unfavorable about him will come out in court. I don't feel that he wants to settle just for the sake of being amicable.

Also, I did find a new home. It's in a nice new city (nothing too far away, just a new place) where I've always wanted to live, and I'm signing the lease next week. My career suddenly exploded this month, and I can easily make $10,000+ each month for the rest of the year. I had plenty of work before, but now I have project after project lined up, and all of my pitches/proposals are being approved. I have never seen anything like this! I'm self-employed. Should I expect my career to remain this successful for awhile, or should I try to do as much work as I can now in case next year hits a rough patch?

Also, do you see me staying in the city where I'm moving? Although it's only 30 minutes from where I live now, my ex (the one I'm going through court with) and I are supposed to be working on things. He refuses to move there in the future, even though it's a better area than we currently live in and has wonderful schools. I feel like if he's serious about getting back together, I will have to give up my home out there and move back here to live with him. I don't think he'll move out there or meet somewhere in the middle.

Sorry this is so long.

Thanks, Daliolite. That was very helpful - and incredibly accurate. I laughed when I read the part about him having mother issues, because you have no idea! She's actually part of the reason that we broke up. They are unusually close to the point where she treats him like her husband or something. She would call at least 10 times a day and send 50+ daily text messages to him...plus talk to him on Facebook and email him...while we lived together, and he would go over to her house almost every day. She was incredibly angry that we lived together and would still try to do his laundry and get him to eat dinner there each night. Keep in mind we have children together and were actually very happy at one point in time, so her behavior was just bizarre. He keeps asking me for money, but I refuse now, so his parents are paying all of his debts - and there are a lot of them. I found the part about remaining in submission financially interesting because my biggest fear is that we will get back together and I'll end up broke again. I am self-employed and my business is doing incredibly well right now, so I can get out of this hole easily if I don't have to take care of him financially anymore. I always joke that my career is the only thing I do right in life. The rest made sense, too. Thanks again!

Hi Daliolite, can you please do a reading for me? I saw that you are doing them for whatever concerns people. I'm very concerned about three things - I'm not sure if they can be combined into one reading? If not, please pick whichever one appeals to you.

Okay, my ex and I are living separately but working on our relationship. Our apartment was sent for eviction earlier this year - he moved out in the middle of the lease and refused to pay his share of rent, and he stopped paying rent more than 6 months before he moved out. This left me in quite a bind financially, but I paid to stop the eviction, kept my apartment, and thought all was well. What I didn't realize is that an eviction ruins your credit for 10 years, even if you pay it in full like I did. I was not able to renew my lease, and I'm having a VERY difficult time finding a new place. I'm currently staying in a small house with my ex (not the ex I lived with, a different one), his mom, his grandma, and my 3 children. It has been terrible, and I am extremely stressed. I want to leave so badly, but every single rental I apply for is not willing to take somebody who has been evicted. The few places that will take me all have long waiting lists or want huge deposits...I'm talking thousands of dollars. When will I find a new home, and where should I look? Am I missing something?

Two other issues: When will my ex and I get back together? We have been working on things for 5 months and he keeps saying that we will for sure get back together - basically, it's not "if", it's "when". Also, we have an upcoming court date for child support and custody. We have been going through court for various things for almost a year now, and I am wondering how the upcoming court dates will go. He has not been a good father since we broke up and currently only sees the children a few hours a week (his choice). He doesn't even show up for most of the scheduled visitations that the court already awarded him. I'm embarrassed to admit that I miss him and want to fix things, because he really is being a jerk lately. He makes more money than me, but says he will get 50% custody and end up paying $0 a month. I don't see how that is possible since he voluntarily skips most of his current visits with the kids and is always out with friends instead. His family has a lot of money, and they keep appealing everything. The people I live with (like I said, it's very stressful here) follow me around all day and tell me that they know he'll get everything he wants in court just because he has money. I don't think they are right, but I am starting to get pretty worried about it since I have to hear them say it every day.

Sorry, this got really long. Thanks for any insight you can give me on any of that stuff.

Oops, I meant to post this in a different thread.