I thank rnrchick and Myviewpoint very much, for their helpful advice and insights on my problems. I am very much so going to take this information in and work @ it for the better, i do want this to work. So again ladies thanks so very much for the helpful advice probably the best I've had thus far truly lol...may God bless you and always be with you!
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RE: Gemini woman in love with Libra Man
Gemini woman in love with Libra Man
So i've been in a relationship with this man now 4yrs 1month and 22days...we love each other so much that we've moved to Ga in a 1 bedroom apartment. Although @ 1st i was unsure of the situation taking place i did anyway just to show how truly in love i was, on top of that b4 i moved here i had left 2 of my jobs not to mention family and friends etc and i guess myself as well. But from losing all of this i thought that i would gain it bck and more as well but unfortunately i haven't. Truthfully i haven't been happy lately not happy living dwn here, being unemployed not working/ bringing in an income and most of all my relationship with my boyfriend. Even tho we have our own problems and differences i realized that we've had little problems long before this, his problems are that he works to much as well as lack of communication/pride and @ times he can be vey selfish and to himself. I understand him working 2 jobs extra hard to pay bills and try to support the both of us but lately its become a problem bc he stresses extremely to much and its taking a toll on the relationship, i know he needs help from me that's why im trying so hard to find work but the way with the economy and budget cuts where i live is so bad its kinda hard. So i also try other methods of helping by trying to conversate and talk to him more often, clean/cook for him and so forth, but i feel like w/e i do is never good enough for him and its starting to make me feel discouraged of myself...lately we've been arguing a lot just abt every other day, bash each other feelings and etc...sometimes it gets to the point where we dnt talk for days/weeks, can't stand the presence of each other or even sleep in the same bed. We try to talk things out and fix the problems but it only goes but so far, its to the point that i've threatened to leave him numerous times and while i really dnt he acts like he doesn't care and he wants me to, but the way i love this man i can't but sometimes i think its really what he wants ...bc i feel as tho he wants me to end it so that way he won't feel guilty of doing so, im to the point where i don't wanna care anymore and leave but i knw i can't...im tired of hurting/crying late @ nite, feeling very unappreciated lately like im not wanted here no more. I just feel like i sacrificed so much to make things work and revolve around this relationship that i missed out on fulfilling myself/life to concentrate more of making him happy and the relationship work but i can't do it anymore....WHAT SHOULD I DO?? PLZ CAN ANYONE GIVE ME ANY HELPFUL ADVICE PLZ B AS HONEST AS U CAN, I NEED IT THANKS!!!
RE: Gemini female in love with cancer man
Hey girl Happy Birthday!!! Like she said above u should move and leave. Im too am a gemini girl who was in love with a cancer man...who was also 1 yr younger then me. What we real to realize is that cancer men is that they r very emotional and full of lies, they only care about what benefits them the most and what they can receive out of it. We were together 3 yrs off and on...i loved him and he said he loved me also, i met his family and friends as well he did mines, we even tried in having a baby(which by the way never succeeded thank god lol). But long story short i eventually found out that he was cheating on me a younger girl(which sucks lol) i even caught them @ the park 1day together and lost it, he denied it for a while until he confessed a few months later which hurt like Hell, we broke up but managed to still be friends and slept together until i eventually got fed up and got the strength to leave, he then tried to apologize and being "SORRY" for what he did he even tried getting back with me on numerous occasions etc...but i had moved on in my life and was not turning back. To this day we see each other @ times when im go to Manhattan to visit old friends and family but we dnt speak no more and as crazy as it sounds i even think/dream abt him @ times i guess bc he was my 1st love and u never forget them, but the best thing you can do is free yourself now and begin the healing process while it is not an easy 1 it takes time and eventually you will...May God Bless You!