You are amazing. Thank you so much

I feel like I'm having the worst year ever. Any idea when things will start to lighten up so I can be happy again

Birthday May 29, 1981

May 29, 1981...can you please do mine : )

I'm dying to know when I'm going to be united with my soulmate

Gemini's LOVE their freedom and if he feels you are imposing upon it too quickly, he'll run like Forrest Gump.

Gemini's also love to flirt, so if you're the jealous type, try to keep it to yourself until you can approach it is playful mannor. I know Aries have a fiery temper (I have my moon in Aries) but if you're into this guy as much as you say you are, you'll respect these two qualities.

As a Gemini, I love to flirt but I never take it beyond that point. We're just playful by nature and flirting makes us feel young.

The most important thing to keep in mind is to NEVER deal with anything that makes you uncomfortable no matter how much you like this guy. Men respect women who respect themselves.

I hope this helps.

How do I know what I was feeling was definitely insecurity and not a gut instinct something was off?

I've been told in the past through psychic and astrology readings that I'd meet my future husband between July 2010 and November 2011. Last august I met someone I only thought of as a friend. I'd been very lonely and praying daily to meet someone I can share my life with. A little after this new friend and I met he expressed interest in me. I was a little reluctant at first but after spending a few months together I've really fallen for him. Then about 6 weeks ago things started to go downhill. Looking back, I blame my insecurities and fear of abdonment. Last week I completely shut him out and requested he discontinue contact with me. My question is, did I let my insecurities get the best of me or was my intuition telling me that this guy is not "the one" (if such a person even exists). I'm afraid of reaching out to him to save face but I do miss him very much.

Men are usually good at letting it be known they want to persue a relationship with someone. If he said he just wants to be friends then unfortunately you have respect it. However, birds of a feather flock together. So maybe he can introduce you to someone you might like. He may be one degree of separation to someone special. No matter what, always stay positive