Well, Ms Kitty Galore...I am a Scorpio too and have been mesmerized by just a few Pisces men. Each time I fell in love quite deeply and thought it was mutual. It was not. They are quite different in their ideas about commitment to a woman. I pined away for 20 years for a Pisces man who created the same kind of devestation in my soul that your Pisces "soulmate" has done in yours. I could never forget the potential of what sharing our love might have been. The intensity was there! It satisfied me in every fiber of my existance. But tragically our lives went different directions because..." he was not ready for that kind of commitment yet ". The desire to have closure about the "what if's" would never leave me alone. Using internet sources I found out he was married and living in another state but I wrote him a letter and told him I needed closure. I gave him my phone number and he called a few months later after I had decided to just leave my letter as closure. He had a wife so I wasn't asking for a relationship...just really wanted to know if our relationship from long ago meant as much to him as it did to me. We didn't hook up we just said hello again, talked about what we once had. So I felt like I had closure. Five more years went by....then out of the blue I get a phone call. I had moved. I got a new partner, bought a home, settled into life without any thoughts of this man. He had left his wife and was on a soulsearching mission. He had driven 1000 miles to see me. He'd gone to the police station in the last town I lived at and asked them if they knew where I was. The police called me and asked if I wanted to talk to him. They gave me his phone number and I called and met him in a park to talk. He said he still loved me. But now I have a committed relationship with another man. Yes, there are soulmates. Thank you for posing that question. But I think we have many soulmates. It is the quality that truely matters. It is what we do with our time with our soulmates that can be extra ordinary sometimes and have huge impact upon who we are as human beings. I will always wonder "what if we had stayed together...what would the quality of our lives have been like?" I have never loved anyone so passionately before or since. But I have found love in my life with other people. I am sure I will experience more love in the years that I have to come. He asked me to come be with him but I asked him 20 years earlier to be with me. Maybe he was the fool the first time and I the second...but the thought of how it took him 20 years to finally be ready for a committment did not feel safe to me. I was afraid to trust that his passion for a long term commitment would be genuine. I really don't think Pisces men are dependable. Good luck.
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