Like alot of you, I have seen some of my own characteristics in the posts listed above. It can be HARD being a Virgo ! By trial and error, (and yes, some of that darn thinking), I've found that if I keep even a small smile on my face, and not jump in with problem solving for people, I can avoid the perception of being seen as a know-it-all ! or a perfectionist ! And yes, I have to constantly remind myself to LIGHTEN UP and RELAX !!! can be hard, but it's a good lesson to have to learn...it's FUN to be able to truly HAVE fun !! we don't HAVE to solve the world's problems, right?