I'll begin with saying this...
I have never really been into Astrology. I must admit... I sort of doubted it. Not in an attempt to be purposefully ignorant; I just never have had too much reason or drive to learn about it.
I don't believe I am doing any of this out of desperation. It just sort of hit me to, well, try and see if Astrology offers any answers. I haven't any clue why my mind went to this way, but it did. It's worth a shot anyway. And I must admit, I am rather shocked by some of the common characteristics that Virgo's posess, I actually do possess myself...
I'll try to keep this fairly simple; I hope one of you will be able to make sense of it...
My best friend is a Pisces. I've always sort of had feelings for her; we discussed this when we first really became friends, and she said she didn't have any, so, I decided not to tell her... I revealed them to her last year as well, but it didn't do anything but pine & languish our friendship for a couple of months.
From reading about them, I'd say she is definitely a Pisces. And I've learned that we are oppisotes, in a few ways similar, but tend to counter-balance the other out.
We're fairly close; she always used to talk to me about her problems, but not as much anymore... I've always been there for her, no matter what, and have several times now, completely dropped what I was doing to go aid her. I have even always been there for her, when she has forgotten about our friendship, and neglected it. We also always tease and fight, and everyone, I mean EVERYONE thinks we're a couple... That's only rubbing salt in my wounds and is another topic, but still, it stings.
At times, it is SO obvious that we could be together. It's so obvious, it's easily passed over and goes un-noticed by her... And I can't help but have thoughts along those lines; I even have dreams about it...
I guess my question could be phrased in several varying ways... Why can't we be together? Why can't she see me in that light? What aspects of our lines of thought and/or feelings just aren't connecting? What could potentially not be alligning for us to BOTH feel something? I don't think it has to do with physical attraction... We are both attractive people. I am just completely bewildered as to what the EXACT reason(s) is/are.
I mean, I am not trying to be with her (I wouldn't mind though.) I am just trying to atleast figure WHY we aren't.
That would make this much easier for me. Because it isn't right to become bitter or angry with her, if she has never even felt anything for me; it wouldn't be right to just stop being her friend & being there for her... So, yeah. I hope this made sense to someone.
Thank you~