very good! youre right, its all true.!
When i started getting into all this i received all sorts of advice and all sorts of books and texts, especially now with the internet there are thousands of books and ideologies available. But the most important thing i did was to just experiment with all my own possibilities, and the possibilities of the world around me. Try all the things that sound interesting to you, and make sure to cross every line at least once, because only by breaking the rules will you eventually come to truly understand and appreciate them.
The most important thing is to get a feeling for the supernatural/magical/occult realm, and find your own way around in it, because there is no such thing as a "right" way to do it, not in life and definitely not in magic. You contain all the possiblities of the universe within yourself, and you set out to access them. And with everything you do next you will discover more, the only thing that can lead you astray is standing still and not living at all.
All right then, ill give it a shot.
The Seven of Wands can sometimes be interpreted as "overcoming obstacles by strength of will", which can be a word of advice. It probably tells something about the next step of your relationship, and about what your relationship is like when it comes to facing challenges. This of course, does not mean that your differences and obstacles will definitely be overcome by strenght and courage, but rather that if you are to succeed, you must really want it and be ready to face your own fears and his. The Eight of Wands, the prime card of Sagittarius, tells you that you can reach what you want if you reach out and get it (and be prepared to fight for it, remember the last card). Also, i am getting the idea from these two cards that an awful lot of thinking will not do your situation any good, but rather following your intuiton and emotions.
Remember though, that i dont mean to say, dont worry youll get back together. I just have the idea that these cards tell you that it is defnitely possible, but that you will really have to put your heart into action, rather then thinking about it a whole lot.
I hope this was just as helpful as the earlier reply. and good luck to you and your friend.
I have a theory (and definitely not anything more then that) that your cards show you an overview of your relationship in a past-present-future kind of way. At least in my experience Tarot usually shows a general overview of a situation instead of straight answers and definitions. Even though i advise against random draws, if you actually want to know a certain one thing, i will tell you my theoretical interpretation:
The Ace of Cups represents roughly the pure form of Water, which deals with feelings (among other things) therefore i would say it may represent the beginning of your relationship (and possible the deepest level of your relationship) and suggest that even though you are apart now, the foundation of your relationship has been, or still is, pure emotions that drew you to him, (or him to you, or both). The Two of Cups is sometimes titled love, the number two is about polarity/duality/attraction/etc Much further I dont want to go about this one, but it sounds hopeful, it says something about the power of love.
Three of Cups can possibly mean that your relationship ended by one of you suffocating the other by rushing things along or overwhelming the other. I am not sure why i might draw that conclusion but it is a possibility.
After this, there is a switch. where up to this point you drew 3 consecutive numbers in Cups, all of a sudden you draw 2 consecutive numbers in wands. this change must mean something...
the seven of wands and the eight of wands might be the future of your relationship?
here i will leave it to you to continue, but remember there are many possibilities, thats the downside of drawing random cards without setting any limits on their meaning beforehand. For example, the cards might not represent your relationship chronologically, but in depth. Or, it might show your feelings, his feeling, your connenction, the possibility of coming back together, and the obstacles in your way. i have no way of telling.
A hint i might add is to pay attention to the fact that you intuitively drew 5 cards, and not any more or less. i must have some significance.
Also, if a single card is of particular interest to you, (or seems to have particular interest in you) there are plenty ways to try and understand it better. There is an enormous ammount of text on tarot, and lots of explanations and meanings to each card. You may want to examine the symbolism of the card in other decks, or learn about its depth by researching what other attributions, (Astrological, Qabalistic, Goetic or whatsoever, ) are to it. Even if these seem far-fetched, you can usually learn a lot about something by looking at it from different viewpoints.
There is no difference. Each card is infinitely important, and infinitely meaningless. The essence of a good reading is to figure out to what part of you and your life a certain card corresponds in a certain spread. If you keep drawing the same card over and over again, there is something telling you to pay attention to it. Then, depending on the question you asked when you drew t, and your own specific situation, analyze how this card is telling you something that you didnt allready know about.
well cant really go into it much right now, but at first glance i would say that if you want to get pregnant now is a good time. and dont wait too long.
he may feel anxious at first, about the commitment involved probably, but he will make a good father later.
this is probably a tough time for you, or its going to be, but eventually youll be much wiser.
What i think is happening:
Many aries male oversimplify (simplification is taurus also). we tend to think "its simple" and "just do it" because that is the way we deal with it ourselves. but not everyone has that straightforward(taurus) mindset in them, which causes us to bump into people that dont meet our own standards. the essential difference between aries and capricorn is that where capricorn is about doing it right and making the right decision, aries is about doing the best you can and doing it right now.
so basically, she probably thinks she is making wise decisions by thinking about getting enough rest and alone time. And you interpret this as lack of interest.
you probably think you should be around her as much as possible and exploit every moment with her to the fullest. which she thinks is ignorant and possibly immature.
basic miscommunication. and the most obvious remedy would be to communicate about it, but you would probably end up in a fight. so in your case it would seem that mutual compassion for each others apparent shortcomings would be the best fix.