Live the dream and dream the life is my motto I try to hold to and much thanks for help from my friends and encouraging stories that nudge me along during those trying and tiring times when I need reminding.
It sounds like you have read the book called The Secret. I have the book and DVD and take from it the nudge I need, from time to time, as well.
I firmly everyone has a spiritually completed equal and maybe this life is like a big puzzle and we are a counterpart seeking to reconnect and just maybe we are shown a little help along the way, maybe when we our intentions come a place that we reset in priority, say heart/spirit/mind/body maybe we are set on that path to get it right, if nothing else perhaps we will at least have some improved senses to take in more frequencies, fine tuned.
Less I keep rambling I will shush now.