My fish does the same thing. I haven't spoken to mine since the 22nd. Haven't seen him since April. I asked him directly why he doesn't want to see me. He said he does, that he has been busy with his Dad who has cancer. (whether that's true or not, idk) I let him know that I'm here for him, but he has disappeared. I sent him an email, and I know he read it.. he read it twice, but no response.
It's very frustrating. It's hard not to take it personally, Makes it hard to trust your instincts. Causes you to doubt his feelings and intentions. Crying yourself to sleep every night gets old in a hurry. I'm actually trying to move on and have started seeing someone else. Is that selfish or insensitive?