Hi Captain, could you do a reading for me please. My sons father and I seperated and became estranged, due to my parents interference, 10 years ago.. I never thought Id hear from him again.. but thanks to internet he tracked me down recently on facebook. He is still single as I am.. he lives in another state and wants to visit us next month.. he last saw and had contact when our son was two.. Our relationship all those years ago was a rollercoaster but we both seem to have settled down. .. My dob is 18/12/76 his is 10/7/66. Thanks in advanced..

Hi, my sons father and I seperated and became estranged, due to my parents interference, 10 years ago.. I never thought Id hear from him again.. but thanks to internet he tracked me down last night on facebook. He is still single as I am.. he lives in another state and wants to visit us next month.. he last saw and had contact when our son was two.. Our relationship all those years ago was a rollercoaster but we both seem to have settled down. Id love if someone could give me a love reading.. Forewarned is forearmed.. My dob is 18/12/76 his is 10/7/66. Thanks in advanced..

Hi everyone I was just wondering what your experiences have been of dating sag women. Im a sag women and have noticed recurring 'complaints' and also themes in my own behaviour. Ive always thought them to be a sag thing.. but I guess theres a chance it could just be me...

Common complaints from ex's:

• Too much 'I' not enough 'we' (eg prefer to deal with my own issues by myself instead of relying on partner to help)

• Partners percieve I want to leave the relationship too early (eg If I sense somethings not right I will call it off instead of whinging or trying to change them)

• Get accused of being too cold (eg instead of being dramatic/ over emotional, I withdraw to sort things out in my mind)

• Very easy going with things most women become irrate over but become upset over things most women dont care about

• over sexual at the start then lose it as the relationship goes on..

Those are the common complaints I have had from ex's. The things Ive noticed are:

-Im generally not attracted to guys who persue me before Im interested in them.. So for me to date someone, I need to have my eye on them first, perhaps initiate the flirting but then let them do the chasing... I then build them up into an ideal.. In the beginning I focus more on do they like me than do I like them... After dating a while I realise they are not the ideal but someone usually incompatible... And I try to end things.. They then become upset and I stay out of guilt and do what I think is trying to make it work, but as you see from the complaints this doesnt work out too well. Obviously it results in me eventually ending the relatioship, the guy left hurt and angry and me left feeling guilty and misunderstood as my intent was always good..

It is clear the problem (that I build men up into an ideal) but that thunderbolt (you feel in the beginning) is so hard to resist... aswell as discern (work out whether it is real or fantasy)

Just wondering whether anyone else has these complaints about sag women... or if Im just a freak hehe

I met a gemini guy at work recently... He started two weeks before I left and is 15 years older than me and married with 3 kids..We seemed to develop a quick witted banter.. a verbal joust of sorts that we gregarious sag's are so fond of. One night after my going away party,we ended up in town alone, and had a great, (what I thought) harmless fun night.. No flirting or innuendo at all, just being silly and foolish then later solving the problems of the universe... I thought I'd made a good friend... A week after I left work (and the state) I recieved an email from him asking if Id arrived safely... I responded that I had... He then replied with an email that floored me... A nice long one describing that he is only interested in me as a friend and that he wishes me all the best and that he loves me but its strictly platonic... I mean what the ...??? haha... I only ever thought of him as a friend... I dont know whether hes accusing me of sinister motives.. whether hes telling me hes into me or whether hes just playing games... Totally wierd! and completely innappropriate... I really dont know how to take him.. Im just gonna ignore it... Anyone else had this from a gem?

For the last 2.5 years my life has been in constant state of change, to the point that I have become blocked and bewildered. I have always been very spiritual and had very powerful intuition and energy but the events of the last few years seem to have thwarted this somewhat. I feel like Im being put through one test of strength after the other with no time to breathe in between. I am a very strong person, and this is recognised by almost all around me and I have the ability to keep dealing with all these tests, but I still wonder what the universe is trying to tell me. I feel that I have very much proven my strength and ability to deal with issues.. The problems I have faced (financial) have led me away from home, and for the first two years I yearned to go back to the nurturing comfort of home... I have finally accepted after universal interventions at every attempt that Im not meant to be there, for whatever reason. I guess Ive realised that it is nurturing more than home that I crave and am opening myself to it in different areas now. In my travels of late I have drawn a few powerful connections with people that I hope would have been nurturing but these have all turned out to be further tests, a mix of sublime devotion and betrayal. Anyway, If anyone has any insight into my situation, as mine is seriously blocked at the moment, I would greatly welcome it. My DOB is 18 dec 1976.