Astrology was once considered a science, neither myth nor magic.

That is how I still view it-- like any other science it can have it's flaws, and in the end it's just a theory, but there IS something to it so it's not a myth. Perhaps magic IS science. ;] Who knows... But yeah, seeing as how I follow one of said older religions, I tend to follow the idea of astrology and other such woo-woo.

Either way. If you believe in it, cool. If not, cool. It's your choice and opinion, yeah?

I would communicate first and ask her if she really wants to end it or not.

It's well and good for her to need more time, but you're a person, too. It's not really nice for her to leave you hanging like that. If she wants to be with you, then she needs to the relationship and actually work at it... if she doesn't, then she needs to just say so. The way your relationship is now, there doesn't seem to be a clear line of what exactly it is or isn't, and that's just asking for trouble.

Good luck.

In my opinion, if someone really loves you, then they can wait until things are better for the both of you. I wouldn't get involved with him until you are both officially single again, and no sooner... if he really is a good person and right for you, then he should understand and respect that.

But I would divorce, honestly, and then have some time to yourself. Re-evaluate your view on relationships, make some rules, expectations, boundaries, etc. Once you have it in your head exactly what you need to work on, work on it and let relationships form from your new view instead of your old one. You'll be a better person and better partner for it.

Good luck.

I agree, this one isn't good news. Best to run away as far and as fast as possible, hehe.

However...

Celticlady69, I find slight offense with your statement. Are you implying that people who rent are somehow less trustworthy than people who own their own place? I hope not. Not everyone has the money to buy a house. I wish!

Good luck with dealing with this person.

I don't know how much stock I place in this "soulmate" business, but I do know that it's not a bad thing to know what you want... The clearer of an idea that you have on exactly what you expect, the easier it'll be to weed out the 'bad people' from your life. It's not picky at all to have rules and expectations-- it's simply taking care of yourself.

Uhm...

Dear, if he said he needs mental help, then obviously all was not well. Forgive my boldness, but I think you simply chose not to see the problem, either consciously or subconsciously. There's no way a person can go from being THAT heartbroken to "just peachy" in the span of one day.

It'd be better for you two to officially separate, and let him work on his own problems and for you to work on yours. I'm not saying you have problems, of course, but I get the feeling that you're a tad co-dependent based on the way you seem to have reacted to the situation.

It's sad that a marriage has to end, but there's no point in you holding on if he's already made his wishes perfectly clear... it'll only hurt you, and your child.

Good luck.

If it hasn't hurt you by now, it probably isn't going to, so I wouldn't really worry about it.

I work with demons and spirits on a regular basis due to my religious beliefs, and the former wouldn't really bother with that sort of a thing; it a waste of time and energy, no offense intended at all. It might be a spirit, or a ghost... probably a younger one, seeing as how you heard "mom" and slapping someone on the knee seems a bit like something a child would do.

Personally, I would just tell whatever it is to leave you alone in a polite way, and focus on bolstering up your confidence and personal power. Things usually don't mess with people who are confident and have a certain aura of strength about them. Don't try to "mess" with it, just tell it you would like to be left alone... and then don't take no for an answer. If it continues to act up, treat it as you would a child-- say NO firmly and explain why. It should stop eventually.

Honestly, stay with the job you're in right now while you practice.

Yes, it sucks to have to work for the greedy people, but you need food, a roof over your head and enough to pay the bills. This will be true, even when you do get good enough to start your own little metaphysical business. Always remember to be practical-- and dumping a well paying job isn't practical right now in this economy.

Maybe to make yourself feel better you can use some of the money you make to help less fortunate people? Donate to charities, volunteer somewhere on your days off and use some money to help the place out, etc. That way, you'll be helping give back to others using the job you have now... makes it less of an evil and more of a blessing, yes?

Good luck.

Ahem, excuse me. A typo...

3+3+3 does indeed equal nine, but I meant to say that 6+6+6=18. 1+8=9.

As a Theistic Satanist, I WISH I had your birthday. That is completely awesome.

Using numerology, 666 is very interesting. First of all, it's 6 energy, the humanitarian energy involving compassion, healing and kindness. Then there's 3 energy (three 6s), which is creativity, optimism and expression of the self. Lastly, 3+3+3=9. 9 energy is about the world, the universe even...

It's also considered, from what I remember, the "perfect" number. Multiply ANYTHING by nine and add it up until you only have one number... it'll always be nine. Multiply any number that adds up to nine by anything else and do the same... it'll always be nine. 126 times 14, for example, is 1764. 1+8+9+0 = 18. 1+8 = 9.

360 is, again, 3/6/9 energy. 6+3=9. 6x3=9.

360 multiplied by 5 = 1800. 1+8 = 9.

12261966 = 33 = 6. 6x3=9.

If you're going to be picking out number, also note the 1221. 12-21-2012 is supposed to be the end of an era. Note that 1221 = 6.

There's nothing evil about it. On the contrary... it's GOOD!

Don't let propaganda and fear-based beliefs make you think less of yourself. This set of numbers is about helping humanity, not harming it.

And goats? Goats rock.

Baa. m/