Posts made by FireCrab

You should use this site or cafeastrology to input her birthday to see what combinations of signs are in her based on her natal chart it might not be the Cancer in her that makes her indecisive. If she has a lot of Leo or air in her, its going to make her very finicky, picky and bossy about what she wants.

I'm a female And I've been lurking these forums and learned that MANY cancer men tend to be enamored by Taurus women. When I was a teenager, I was dealing with a lot of Taurus guys and they were very fun and an Aries/Taurus cusp guy was completely in love with me. As I grew up, I began attracting many air signs and fire signs, but nothing stuck. A lot of Capricorn men are attracted to me, but I feel as if they're too rigid for my taste.

I have a feeling that I should go for a Leo guy that has a lot of Cancer in him to compliment my own placements or a Virgo guy because I hear that they're completely dedicated to their lovers. I'm not really sure, haha. I think a lot of Cancer men find my energy intimidating.

Carol, Virgo men are extremely sensitive and are ridiculously afraid of rejection as well. You should do his natal chart to see what other signs he has in him that contribute to his behavior. If you're both afraid of rejection, you could be in this loop of awkward communication until you both get all of your feelings out on the table. I personally think that you should be up front with him. He's either afraid of rejection or is afraid of becoming too attached to someone.

Lol. Its a well known fact that water signs and earth signs actively chase after fire signs because they crave that opposite element. But a Taurus guy is not a good match for an Aries woman that is not fully engaged in him. Aries women are extremely independent and aren't attracted to people that don't fascinate them. If she's flirting with you, but isn't as engaged in you as you are with her, chances are that she'll only keep you at a distance. If her marriage were to fail, she STILL wouldn't be with you. Aries women are known for pursuing their love interests. They're rams so that's what they do. As a Taurus guy, you can't help but be naturally drawn to her. That's fine but flirting back and forth for 6 months is not a message that its going to go anywhere.

Aries women are very direct. If she wanted to sacrifice her marriage to have an affair with you, she would have. You're also going to get a ridiculous amount of horrible karma for trying to lure someone out of a marriage. If this Aries woman DID by chance pursue something with you, your karma would come in the form of her becoming bored with you and cheating on you.

Save yourself the heart ache and go after someone who's actually single.

I'm a double Cancer (Sun/Moon) and have my Leo in Mercury, Venus, Mars, Jupiter AND my Midheaven (Scorpio is my Rising). As a Cancer with that much Leo in me, I'm not too sure what sign combinations to look for because what normally works for Leo (Sag/Aries/Gem/Libra) is completely horrible for me because my double cancer (and triple water sign) only intensifies leo's constant need for attention and admiration from their partners. Does anyone here have any recommendations?

I'm a female Cancer and I honestly don't think that you can say that Cancers don't settle from only looking at her sun sign alone. She could have a lot of independent signs in her that make her very flaky and commitment phobic. Cancers are very stability-oriented signs, so her having Gemini, Saggitarius or Pisces (etc) in her wouldn't make her sit still.