Posts made by femscorp2000

Thank you for your kind comments.

No one?

Cancer's are attached to home and family and his ex is probably keeping him close to home by asking him to stay involved with the family. If he is distancing himself from you then you have your answer right there. I mean who can be at two places at one time?

My husband is a cancer and wants a divorce because I didn't appreciate him. He says he wants to be friends and is always there for me when i need him. We have 2 children together and I am desperate to gain his trust and love back. If we begin to be friends what are my chances that we will find love again if I give him everything he needs this time around? It was all my fault, I was stupid, and now I need help. Please give me advice.

Cancergirlnyc: http://www.tarot.com/forum/topic.php?id=2664&replies=28 Now he wants a divorce but i think hes not totally sure. He sent me an e-mail saying that he cares about me. I just need to know if I give him space or go beg or what? I'm desperate, we have 2 kids, please help.

Thanks for your replies.

Do cancers break up and then make up often? My husband and I have been together for 5 years we broke up (his Idea) for three months in the first year. Then we got back together, got married, had a child and have been married for 2 1/2 years. All of the sudden he told me that he was unhappy and didn't love me anymore, then moved out. He calls and texts often about the kids and to see how i am doing but I want to know if Cancers just go thru stuff sometimes, or is he serious.

Cancergirlnyc:: Do you think you could help me with my Cancer hubby? I am hurting and want to help him come home.

Cancergirlnyc: I feel for you I really do I am a Scorpio and am currently going thru a pre-divorce with a Cancer man. My advice to you is to talk to him as I know that you Cancers just clam up when you are hurt. I don't think that you should ever take him back as you will just be insecure the rest of your relationship. But YOU Mrs. Cancer need closure. Be brave, get your closure, then move on. But don't ever hide. Be strong, Get what you need.

Life has been really crazy now. Thank everyone for all of your comments and well wishes.

Thank you lovinmylife I really appreciate your "Aires" attitude but I already tried to beg him back twice. He told me he needs his space so I am granting him that. I got some bad news about my sister yesterday and he left work and came to stay with me for 4 hours while I cried. It was amazing he supported me and consoled me. He even brought me my favorite food and made me eat. There is nothing more i want to do than promise to offer him everything he wants and ask him home but I do agree with giving him space so that he can work thru his anger and start to forgive me. He had told me since he left that he doesnt love me in the "wife" way any longer so there is little that I can do I guess. I plan to continue to give him the space he requests and continue to keep him coming home once a week to do things around the house. Hopefully this will make him feel needed as I am acting like I am totally lost as far as taking care of the lawn, clogged drains, and such. I wish he would come home......

Unfortunately I think it is much too late for that.

The decision was totally his. He made his decision after being out of the house for 3 weeks. Although he told me he wants a divorce he still texts me and even came over to the house on Friday with a migraine. His sister drove him over to get the kids for the weekend when he could have just asked her to pick them up from me. He looked awful and I think that he wanted a hug from me but I am just too messed up by his decision to have any contact with him physically.

Someone please give me some good advice. I really need to get my husband home. He's made a hasty decision and if he was not giving me other signs i would believe him but I know he misses me.

Now he wants a divorce. It's devastating,

Femscorp2000,

Thanks for posting the site. I've heard of it but didn't know the address. I'll give it a try ...after all who doesn't have a wish or 2 they'd like to come true!!

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I went to a psychic yesterday and she gave me a very accurate reading on what was going on with my husband that just moved out. She said that she could work with us to get us back together and I was wondering if anyone has had a positive experience with a psychic helping them in love? What do they do? How well does it work?

BUT now I need to get him back home so i can prove that i can give him what it was that he needed.

Yes. I do know that this is my fault. I did not understand what he meant when he was telling me these things, to me I was respecting him and appreciating him. Keep in mind these things mean different things to different people. Now that he is gone I have done research and found the repect dare book. While reading this i get a rude awakening and saw my faults.

My husband is a cancer I am a Scorpio and we have been married for a 2 and a half years. In the last few months he has been really irritable and complaining that he was not appreciated or respected. We were getting into constant fights due to his moodiness and then out of nowhere he told me that he was leaving. He has been gone almost 3 weeks to his mother’s house and I have tried everything that I can think of to get him back home. Now I am just leaving him alone. We have 2 kids together and he is still very active in their lives, he cannot tell me if he wants a divorce or not, and has left all of his belongings here at our home. He refuses to talk about what is going on but will not completely break off our marriage, saying that he needs some space and he doesn’t want to make the wrong decision. All the while telling his family that he won’t be there for long, and talking to them about (our family, and me nonstop) I am willing to give him the space that he needs but I am wondering if he is being mulipitive and trying to teach me a lesson by giving me that silent treatment. How are Cancers when they break it off with someone? I heard that they do the disappearing act if they are hurt, but then come back when they feel like it. Is there anything I can do to bring my Cancer home??? Please help.