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RE: WHAT AM I DOING?....WHAT DO I DO?
wow! Myviewpoint, you could not have said that any better! I respect you so much for being truthfull but most of all i respect you because you are so correct about the gemini....thanks so much and that was awesome advice! We do have the tendacy to want to save the less fortunate men we meet and i will let joel go...that is what i was thinking but because he always said the right thing at the right time and made me feel so good i held on to him, when in all actuality he is nothing to hold on to. Your the best!
WHAT AM I DOING?....WHAT DO I DO?
Well, where do i begin? I have great advise sometimes for every one but my self! I've been dating ...there is joel>the guy who is handsome, does not have a job, 39yrs old .to be 40 in august.........there is mike> great guy..has a great career, own place, handsome, has everything that i would want in a man........there is kenny..ok guy...good job.....two teens, ..he' s ok..............ted....he is the entertainer...throws great parties...has a great career.....very handsome........one child......separated from wife............nate....registered nurse...handsome ,no kid, nice house....good things going for himself..........four out of five of these men have themselves together, pretty much.....two out of all of them i am actually dating...the rest are potential dates but we are just friends.......mike calls when he wants some...however i really like him and i have made this known to him...just dont know how to take him..he seems alittle unsettle-what do i do with him.............................joel is older than the rest of them and he is really a great guy and he treats me exactly how i want to be treated, but he lives with his mom and dad..he has two 7yr olds and he does not have a job but he has a teaching degree and i ask myself as well as him ...why dont you try to find work and the excuse is ...the economy......i dont know ......kenny...he is more of a thug..he works and he has a 13 and 14yr old and they are really kids that get into alot of trouble and he wants to be with me but i have a 3yr old girl and who am i to judge but i dont want that around my child ...am i being selfish.....so i stand him up alot but i like him.....ted/nate...both great guys however they are doing so well that i think they like being single just to be able to get all of the ladies they can possibly handle..however i dont know....is it me...am i the reason i cant find a good guy ..i have a great home, one daughter, very clean....i am definitely attractive as can be, and you all know gemini's we have a great personality......why cant i find a man i was married and got a divorce because he was abusive and my childs father was very mentally and emotionally abusive as well.....what am i doing and what do i do?
RE: Lost in love and so very confused? Needing advice.
well honey, i have been there several times before (the married man), i apologize for what i am about to say because you may find it a little hurtful, the truth does sometimes hurt. However, married men tend to love having their cakes and eating it too! They tell you what you want to hear because you are their get away!...Well i guess you say get away from what? Well the get away from the everyday headache-THE WIFE! You allow the married man to have excitement, your new, your fun, your going to be doing sexy things that wifie may not do anymore or she may still do however it just does not excite him as much because he is used to it.....So he tells you, i dont want to be with her anymore, she does not cook for me, she does not clean the house, she is lazy, maybe even, she is not giving him any or it is not good....Does any of this sound familiar? Maybe Maybe not. The excuse"i wont leave until my child graduates" Hey that is really a good one, right...because we know that is going to take a few more years and by then either you all will have had enough of each other or that will give him enough time to find another excuse to hold him off from leaving that wife that he is really never going to leave...she will probrably end up leaving him first because she has caught up with his tricks and games.......COME ON NOW, OUT SIDE OF BEING IN JAIL, WHEN DO WE AS PEOPLE REALLY LET ANYTHING STOP US FROM DOING WHAT WE WANT TO DO WITH WHOM? If he wanted to leave he would be gone! He just has a very believable excuse! Well enough of him right now...lets get to you! You are in love with him so you are believing every thing he is telling you, and you are preparing for your divorce and thinking yes i am going to be with Mr. married man...well honey make sure you are getting a divorce for YOU and not him because when it is all said and done, i do wish you luck, but you may not end up with mr married man, so while you are ahead of yourself, pray, or do whatever you do to help you get encouraged and get over him and leave the door open with him by saying hey im getting my self together and if you want me, your will get yours together too!....If he really wants you he will come and get you (easier said than done) But dont live you life a lie/dream...live reality! I love you like a sister....because i love everyone...take care until next time...and trust me i know. I have been with several married man and it took experience to find out that you will loose in the end !