Ah, but I find astrology to be incredibly accurate in describing an individual's personality! If you received a professional reading, you might change your opinion. And yes, a complete and thorough, accurate reading does indeed take into account that we are all unique, dignified beings with free will and the ability to choose our reactions and actions in life.
The "canned" interpretations that appear on websites are only a snippet of what a full reading would give. Therefore, you don't get the whole, detailed and nuanced picture. I imagine it's the same way with numerology; I just don't know much about this practice.
I'm curious, though, why you would be reading this site if you reject astrology, numerology, etc.?