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RE: Beauty vs Pretty
Have you ever noticed a couple that were together and thought to yourself, those two certainly don't go together. She is extremely obese and he unusually skinny, yet they are hand in hand, they may give a little kiss to one another as a token of the appreciation they have for their relationship. My point is of course that beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. The object of our affection needs to be on finding ones soul mate. I know being on this site (astrology), you must certainly believe in that possibility! I speak from experience having been married more than once. I am a virgo who married a cancer that gave birth to our seven children. Astrologically we were compatible (at least more than most other signs) but after 25 years of marriage she left me for an old college sweetheart. It was devastating at the time. I crashed into chronic depression and I might ad that this was in 1998, two years prior to my introduction to astrology. Obviously codependent , I met another very nice lady and with in two weeks I was married again. Yes it was a very hard time in my life. This lady (come to find out) was also a cancer and for 5 years our relationship was a love hate experience. Her previous husband died with in two years of their marriage of brain cancer. To keep this in perspective, she too had been married twice before she met her last husband. She always over weight ( 300 lb.) and physically and emotionally abused by these men. After her divorce from person number two, she had her stomach stapled and dropped to 135 pounds. She was struggling to get her self esteem back. She was extremely attractive to me but husband number three was her soul mate. She knew it and he knew it. So when he was taken with in two years, she too was devastated and depressed at the same time I was but we masked it because we found solace with one another (Now two co-dependents together). To make a long story short, I wanted a soul mate and she had found hers and that was that. It became a marriage of convenience until it collapsed in the fifth year. During my marriage to her, I began studying astrology because I was earnestly seeking truth and needing answers. As a virgo, I went into it very deep and serious and nine years later have continued my quest, moving into numerology and even trying to learn more of the tarot. I bought a book called "LOVE SIGNS", by Linda Goodman, had my Indra report done and many other reports in order to help find me. I spent a year in Phoenix living with a son of mine to try and gather myself together. Knowing I wanted true companionship and knowing also I was going to return to the community where all my relationship nightmares took place, I began to research the sign most compatible for me. I am so grateful for Linda Goodmans book because she says it like it is and has an excellent way of writing to express her feelings. Plus, her book is all about behavioral profiling. Well, I returned to my home town and thought I knew what sign I was looking for (knowing there are at least four signs of the zodiac one is most compatible with). I went to an adult singles dance thinking that a particular lady would be there because we had met on the internet and she had invited me to attend and we would meet. She would be wearing a red rose to help me recognize her. Well, I went and she was no wear to be found. I search the whole place for her but she wasn't there. I stood by the door preparing to leave in disappointment when some one came up from behind me and said to me, "you're not going to dance standing in the door way" and grabbed my hand leading me to the dance floor. If you know Virgo's, we are more reserved than that, however I was polite. She was one of the leaders there and informed me that she had a three dance limit with those who come to these single adult dances. I was fine with that and we danced the three dances with some breaks in the middle to just get acquainted. Well after the third dance we danced every dance until the dance was over. We never left each other after that and were married six months later. She told me that when she looked into my eye's there was something telling her we knew each other (our souls). Bottom line, she is an Aquarius, which was not one of my preconceived options. However, the Aquarians are universal, they are a human sign of the zodiac and are years ahead in their perceptions and they are the humanitarians. The Virgo is the only other human sign and if I were to go on, you wouldn't believe how much the same we are according to our charts. After all the pain and suffering I had gone through in 55 years, these last 4 1/2 years have been worth all the previous pains. WE ARE SOUL MATES! We have never had an argument or cross word towards one another. We are best friends and it has been the guidance we receive from the language of the stars that keeps us grounded. The stars have enlightened the both of us and our relationship with others is that of humanitarians. So many are suffering because they haven't found themselves. They haven't realized their Karma, what happens when their ruling planet goes retrograde. Astrology and Numerology are no respecter of persons. It is the universal truth that puts religion in perspective. Pretty is self perception empowered. I wish you the best in your book. Sorry if I rambled.
RE: Soul Connections
I am a Virgo Male and I can tell, that for the most part, Virgo's and Cancers are very compatible. Virgo's are heady and Cancers are heart felt and all about feelings. Knowing Cancer and deeply as I do (due to a lot of research), My Soul Mate is an Aquarius. Numerology has our numbers the same. Astrology? We have the same planets in the same houses. It's all about finding your Soul Mate, regardless of their sign. But remember your duty is to be able to accept who they are and grow together.
RE: Help with reading -What Relationship Would Be Like
Every coin has its direct opposite as in every sign has the involved side / enlightened and the uninvolved side or dark side. If you are soul mates, your souls will speak to each other. One often more loudly than the other but your frequency will be in harmony and most importantly you will know it. Meaning, you already know the answer to your question. You just need to look inside of your heart. I recommend the book by Linda Goodman, "LOVE SIGNS". You will never regret it. You will discover that there are typically 4 compatible signs for your particular sign. However, by reading and studying her book closely, it allows you to research basic behavioral profiles of any individuals patterns, thus giving us a heads up. Believe me, there are a lot of poorly matched marriages on this planet but if one seeks the truths found in the language of the "STARS", one is now empowered due to the fact that the stars speak pure truth, yet allowing us our free agency to heed the message or not.