I had just changed my name back from my married one to my maiden name on a social website. I had realized that it had been since July that I even signed in to my account. Not even three hours later an old friend from high school searched and found me. It's a long story but my ex-husband that I find out this year is a sociopath. Before I had even met him, right next door to my old friend's house lived my ex-husband's best friend and her sister was his best friend's girlfriend. My friend and I were 13 and 14 at the time and he's around five and a half years older than I. I didn't put this all together until I had went to see my friend after all long time of never even hearing from each other for nearly ten years. My mom had seen a man in my window back then too and had brought that up no more than a day earlier. I'm scared...but I thought all this time that I had him figured out. And now I see that I had never put two and two together and wouldn't have still without my being spoken to about the past all at once. There's a lot to the story that won't all fit in the page but it's not beyond him at the time to stalk me back then. I've seen a man with his build down the hill from where I live now staring up at the house for a long time. It was too close to deny that a man was there talking on his cell phone after he stopped there on his bike with his helmet on the whole time, but too far away to hear the voice. I know the coincidences have meaning for a direction I should go or actions I should take. Should I be afraid?