@ rapunzle -
I don't base my life decisions off of astrology. I have found that it, like many other viewpoints, has been simply too coincidental to ignore or dismiss entirely. to me, it's just another piece of the puzze, another viewpoint that i take into consideration.
i have let the Pisces go. it wasn't easy, but it was the best thing to do. i had to do it for my own sanity. i have found someone (or rather, been found by someone) new and i am in a place mentally and emotionally where i'm able to fully invest into her, as i have been the past week. you have to understand that the Pisces and I have been in limbo since January, more or less, with having tried two times after that. i was holding on to something that i shouldn't have been, and had to face the reality of it all. i am much, much better off.
i would say your statement of "many here have a history of failed relationships" is no more accurate than that being true amongst any other demographic. people fail at relationships, that is just how the world works. we all learn our lessons in different ways and through different means. when we figure things out, it is nice to be able to share with others so that hopefully we're able to make a difference or an impact in someone else's journey to find who they are supposed to be with.
perhaps you should take a look in the mirror as to why your own history has failed, if that is the case. i don't say this as an attack, but as a suggestion to be honest with yourself. or, if you are in a happy relationship, then perhaps sharing some lessons of your own you have learned will make an impact in another's life. i know that through this forum and another (unrelated forum) that i frequent, I have impacted several lives for the better by posting my experiences. hopefully, you are able to do the same.
i saw the virgo last night, we went to the movie late last night and have dinner plans tonight, then our workout class tomorrow together. again, smooth sailing. we get along very easily and are very easy to be around each other. i am still blown away that this has happened so quickly and we both are taking it slow to keep things in check, etc. great stuff.