Glad I could help Ehlen, I know all too well what you mean. I tend to cause myself more trouble I think, trying to read my own cards - like you, tending to see only what I want to see. I think HighP09 makes a good point too. As we can all see, there is happiness in the end, just a little vague at this point what that will look like. So nice to share with other "readers" in this forum. I'm really enjoying it.