November 20, and December 11

Hey I'm a Scorpio on the cusp of sag, n I have to say I've had quite a ruling over men and am still young. I am a truly honest person and became well aware of my desires for control early on tho and Have learnt how to divert them. In relationships I don't need to put restrictions on my partner, or have a say in everything they do, but I do expect honesty from them above all, and respect. My issue though is I've been on and off with a sagitarius for about a year now, n I need some advice. Hes a guy always on the move, never in the same place twice and doesn't live off a schedule, I understand that n when we were together it seemed like he tell me what he was up to, but sometimes it didn't feel like he'd make time for me, and often I no it was in retaliation to something I'd done.

Wer not together and I don't really expect we will get back together but I would like to like two bits of advice

1. I'm very aware of sags unattachment to things when they feel it's not worth it, n I as a Scorpio have tried (very harshly unfortunately) to have some affect on him yet it seems to my very core it's had more of an affect on me. I just want some closure on it with him it seems like wer still friends, I just can't figure out if he was using me the whole time or Acctually did care and just doesn't now that I don't

An 2. As silly as it sounds if we do get back together I'd like some advice on the best way to control my scorpioness with him, being on the cusp I know I have as much spontinaity and search for adventure as him, I'm certainly not the routine slave my sign is said to be, but it's when he wants to have his own adventure that I get caught up in questioning his love for me, and can retaliate quite over the top sometimes

Anyways I'd love to hear from anyone, but especially some scorpios n sags, I believe ther can be compatibility between all signs, and I know it takes work from both ends I'd just like to know how I can either get over these feelings I have for him and the unintentional way his passivity to my aggressive dumping of him makes my insides twist into a knot, or how I can connect with him more and show him that I am Acctually making an effort, and then will he too?

Thanks,

• a very disrtraugt Scorpio