Do you really want advice? Do something to help her financially. Find a job, pay your bills, clean the kitchen, shop and cook, mow the lawn, pay her back... I'm not kidding. She is backing off, telling you she won't pay your way, and watching to see if you can step up to the plate. Don't crumble and don't turn mean. A Taurus wants a financial partner. Yes, we are in an economic recession, so try harder! Turn off the TV, get out, make resumes, do research, ask advisors for advice, kick yourself in the pants. And by all means, be nice, back off from your calls and texts, and update her in a few days when you have good news. She's not gone. She needs a break from the stress of an unemployed man in the house. She just wants a capable, employed, adult partner to love. Good luck.