Sorry, Captain. I should have scrolled down further before replying! In many respects the info regarding my son and I is correct. It will be interesting to see how it plays out as he ages. The romantic comparison was a potential interest so I haven't any feedback.
I believe I read in earlier posts that this is from a book but haven't found the tilte or author. I would be interested in checking it out with this information.
thanks again
Sorry, I thought I was more clear than I obviously was.
Myself (15 September 1977) with both potential mate (21 January 1980) and myself (15 September 19770 with my son 98 september 2002)
thank you.
Thank you for your offer.
Mine - 15 Septmeber 1977
His - 21 January 1980
if possible and your book offers such information, would also be interested in child/parent compatibility
child - 8 September 2002
Thank you again
Hello,
I recently met someone at a healing touch workshop with who I worked tremendously well with. I am ordinarily socially phobic and because I live in housing for women who who have been affected by Domestic Violence; quite reserved. However, I was quite social and even gave this fellow my contact information. We have been in contact and both felt the same connection but neither of us can define it. It is deeper than just having "caught each other's eye."
I pulled three cards using my Gilded Tarot deck using the Me Us Them spread. I asked (and agree I should have been more specific as this is the best possible outcome):
What will be between myself and [this man]?
I pulled (all upright):
Ace of Cups for myself
Page of Cups for Us as a unit
The Star for this man
Given that I am working hard to change a lifetime of domestic violence and unhealthy relationships and have had one stumbling block thinking I was ready, I am, naturally, nervous. I fully intend (as does he) to begin as seeing whether a friendship develops and to practice healing touch together (probably with at least one more person if we can find someone else interested). Everything will be slow to gauge my readiness )and his; I know he has just begun to move forward after a difficult relationship.
I read this spread as saying that we will both learn much from a connection and we may both experience unconditional love for the first time in our lives (I do not see anything intimate being long lived but hopefully a friendship will be lifelong). That this connection (thanks to the messenger in the Page of Cups will be an invaluable experience.
Am I reading this correctly?Any information?advice?interpretations?predictions etc etc etc are welcomed.
I have had romantic ties between to Aquarians and consistent dreams (over the past 2 years) which indicate to me I need to make a choice. I know one, first initial B (February 17, 1973) revolves around a past life circumstance and is, at times, unhealthy. We have had an on again off again physical relationship though it is currently off. Yet, we can't shake each other an it is our fears which lead to unhealthy aspects; fears which I have begun to overcome but I believe he is currently stagnating.
The second has not gone beyond flirtation but is a healthier person who is an absolute male feminist while still being masculine (I have long been drawn to effeminate men who feel inadequate and this is partially why I have been in so many abusive relationships: the key word here is partially). Both men are highly intell9igent but while B is an artist who often questions his successes and value, D (Aquarian number 2: January 21, 1980) is an activist lawyer who has done so much good for those who are underprivileged for any number of reasons. His views are in line with mine and this is shown through both words and action (B, it's just words). I also know that I knew D before (I am clairaudient and my Grandmother keeps telling me she "sent me that Campbell." D and I are both extraordinarily proud of our Scottish Campbell ancestry).
I am not in a place to get involved with anyone at this present time but when I am ready, are either of these candidates going to be in a position to get involved with me? Are either going to want to? I feel it could go either way and while B is unhealthy now, this isn't always going to be the case. Who should I choose or should I forget the pair of them?
Thanks for any info. If further info required (ie: names, pics) please email me privately so I can keep everyone relatively anonymous.
My birthdate is 15 September 1977 and first initial is also B, if this helps
I also want to add that, despite knowing that I have much healing to do before I can enter an intimate relationship, I am incredibly lonely, For reasons I won't get into my son lives in another province and I haven't any other family. I certainly do not have friends ( I prefer a small group of close friends over a flock of superficial ones). I am surrounded by love from people who have passed but sometimes it would be nice to have someone on an earthly plane to talk to, have coffee with, to hold and lend a should a shoulder to as they could for me.
Does anyone see anyone coming into my life? Even as a friend? I know my healing process depends on me and the work I put in but I have been working so hard and solidly for three years. Just today at a Healing Touch session (I have only been going to someone other than working on myself for about 2 months) commented on how much stronger I am. Can I find unconditional love (not necessarily intimate love) from either of these two (I have always had more male friends than female) or anyone else? Anyone see anyone at all entering my life who is healthy for me. And who shares my interests (most of my friends have been male because of my interests; most have never been and neither party wanted to be lovers).
Thank you again.
(while I am intuitive and use my own gifts as well as tools, such as automatic writing and tarot etc, like many I have difficulty truly looking at the knowledge from my higher self and sources with unbiased eyes).
Thank you again
Have you tried cleansing your cards? There are multiple easy ways to do this. I also find that badgering (as I call it and have been guilty of) can produce difficult and confusing readings. Also, sometimes the cards will tell you things they (higher self) feels you need to know more than your question or might give confusing answers that will only become clear with time.
Some tricks to cleanse your cards:
organise the entire deck in its face-up order starting with Major Arcana and then moving to minor (the order of the suits varies by deck, I find). This can worl in and of itself but I then will place my quartz and tourmaline crystals on top of the deck face down and leave in the light of a full moon.
I then, to be on the safe side, take a very gentle cleanser and mist each card in order and polish individually (mist individually and then gently polish before moving to the next). This cleans them and helps you to reconnect as I also focus on the energy of each card while doing this.
To refuse them with your energy, you can lace them (still in oder) under you pillow while you sleep. I also shuffle them randomly throughout the day (when I am in positive spirits!) without asking any questions or laying any spreads. I know intuitively when they are ready (I even feel them tingling in my hands). Taking each card, in order, and looking at the symbolism of each (notetaking is a good idea) and the feelings each card inspires in you (without any books or guides) is also a great way to reconnect as well as better interpret each card for yourself.
I also highly recommend reading Mary K. Greer's Tarot for Yourself.
I would pull a spread for you but I have not been in (the aforementioned) positive spirits and would not feel comfortable giving a re3ading in such circumstance. I do hope some of the above info is helpful to you, however.
(And I just got a whisper in my ear from my guide which you can as you will but are you sure the cards aren't working for you or are you not getting the answers you want to hear? If this is the case, it is common. I frequently do the same. Or perhaps you are not placing enough trust in your own abilities... I am also guilty of this. I have only brought myself into this so you know you aren't alone in this.
Good Luck
I also want to add that, despite knowing that I have much healing to do before I can enter an intimate relationship, I am incredibly lonely, For reasons I won't get into my son lives in another province and I haven't any other family. I certainly do not have friends ( I prefer a small group of close friends over a flock of superficial ones). I am surrounded by love from people who have passed but sometimes it would be nice to have someone on an earthly plane to talk to, have coffee with, to hold and lend a should a shoulder to as they could for me.
Does anyone see anyone coming into my life? Even as a friend? I know my healing process depends on me and the work I put in but I have been working so hard and solidly for three years. Just today at a Healing Touch session (I have only been going to someone other than working on myself for about 2 months) commented on how much stronger I am. Can I find unconditional love (not necessarily intimate love) from either of these two (I have always had more male friends than female) or anyone else? ANyone see anyone at all entering my life who is healthy for me.
Thank you again.
(while I am intuitive and use my own gifts as well as tools, such as automatic writing and tarot etc, like many I have difficulty truly looking at the knowledge from my higher self and sources with unbiased eyes).
I have had romantic ties between to Aquarians and consistent dreams (over the past 2 years) which indicate to me I need to make a choice. I know one, first initial B (February 17, 1973) revolves around a past life circumstance and is, at times, unhealthy. We have had an on again off again physical relationship though it is currently off. Yet, we can't shake each other an it is our fears which lead to unhealthy aspects; fears which I have begun to overcome but I believe he is currently stagnating.
The second has not gone beyond flirtation but is a healthier person who is an absolute male feminist while still being masculine (I have long been drawn to effeminate men who feel inadequate and this is partially why I have been in so many abusive relationships: the key word here is partially). Both men are highly intell9igent but while B is an artist who often questions his successes and value, D (Aquarian number 2: January 21, 1980) is an activist lawyer who has done so much good for those who are underprivileged for any number of reasons. His views are in line with mine and this is shown through both words and action (B, it's just words). I also know that I knew D before (I am clairaudient and my Grandmother keeps telling me she "sent me that Campbell." D and I are both extraordinarily proud of our Scottish Campbell ancestry).
I am not in a place to get involved with anyone at this present time but when I am ready, are either of these candidates going to be in a position to get involved with me? Are either going to want to? I feel it could go either way and while B is unhealthy now, this isn't always going to be the case. Who should I choose or should I forget the pair of them?
Thanks for any info. If further info required (ie: names, pics) please email me privately so I can keep everyone relatively anonymous.
My borthdate is 15 September 1977 and first initial is also B, if this helps
Has anyone done this or familiar with this type of modelling clay?
My specific concern is the weighting of them. I assume (and common sense tells me) they should be weighted equally but hould they be light? I have never used sculpey and I am also wondering if it dries lighter than it is wet. I am new to Runes but have an incomplete set I can use as a guide for weight and size. I have also printed off a list of each Runic letter typically found in a divination. I like the idea of making my own, partly for financial reasons (the sculpey is already in the house) but primarily to fuse my own positive energies into the making of them (and it seems a good project while I quit smoking!).
Any tips/suggestions are greatly appreciated.
Thank you, Captain. This was an aspect that had completely escaped me.
My guides have made the situation far more clear to me and it is more complicated than this but what you say will be good for me as well. I am not quite ready to forgive but when the time is right for this then I hope I will be able to do so.
What I do know with greater clarity is that this is a past life issue that I have repeatedly put myself into even though I no longer have that debt and/or lesson to work out. I have repeatedly subjected myself to traumas I have not needed to. I also know that this man is a "worm who has his hooks into me" (a mentor's phrasing) and I need to free myself of them; this is partly why I cannot yet forgive. I need to remember the negative aspects (as well as the good) in order to fully release him from my life. I also do not need to continue sacrificing myself in order to save others. But, as I have said, forgiveness will come with the appropriate time.
These are the lessons I believe I have yet to learn from him and I know I can learn them from a distance. There is not need to continue to allow abuse in more life nor do I need to set myself up for anymore emotional pain.
Thanks again